Music Hits the Spot

I Want You

2011-04-03T01:09:00.001-04:00

To remember the iconic legend that I'm about to talk about. This was a man that was a great in his own right...and in everybody's mind, one whose music could not be touched. Although he had many cuts that everyone loved on, I gotta say that this is probably my most favorite song:

This song brings back memories of cleaning up on Saturday morning, and Moms would play the records to get us (read her) motivated. I didn't know what it was back then, or what was considered to be good music, all I know is that it had a good beat, and we would dance around the house while cleaning. Now that I'm older, I can appreciate the words as well as the music.

Another one that made the record player top list was this one:

I know that we all remember this from the olden days...this is probably one of his most popular songs....outside of this one:

Now this has gots to be the most famous song to ever come out of the 70s. I know people who were born after me, who know this song and ONLY this song as being wrote and performed by Marvin.

Here is another very popular song that was known by many:

I think that it's really sad that his father had to kill him in the act of jealousy, because Marvin is one who could have still been producing timeless music to this day. The world was done a great disservice when he was taken away.

Just as a side note, here are some great duets that he produced with other people:

I still say that Tammi Terrell was the love of his life, and he just didn't admit it to anyone. D'Angelo and Erykah Badu did a decent remake of this song, but it still didn't touch the original.

The title explains it all...at least to me. The real thing...get into that.

This song provided Method Man and MJB with a bangin track. Marvin and Tammi....enough said.

This one, while not with Tammi, is still a hit. This one features Diana Ross...who we all know can hold her own with some of the game's greatest.

Marvin Pentz Gay, Jr., even though you were taken away from us too early in the game, you still left us with some gems of music to ease away the pain. Your music will never grow old, and it will continue to warm the hearts of those who heard it first, and even those who came about after your death. May you R.I.P.

What I'm Listening To

2011-03-30T21:49:00.000-04:00

I can say that the end of 2010 into the beginning of 2011 has started off on the good foot as far as music is concerned. There have been some good albums to have been dropped in the last 6 months, as well as some bad ones, but the ones that I consider as good have been on serious rotation. I know I'm not gonna touch on them all, but I wanted to at least touch on a few of them that are getting mad play on the iPod.

Starting off with a group that I didn't expect to wow me like they did.

I gotta admit, I was late on gettin with The Foreign Exchange. I had heard them before while working PT at Express, but I didn't know who they were, until last year (or maybe '09) when a couple of homies (shout out to Mels and Reecie) put me onto their second cd, Leave It All Behind. So once I peeped that out, I was instantly a fan...and now in hearing their 3rd joint, Authenticity, it has definitely made me a fan for life. My favorite from this project is the title track.

Moving onto a perennial favorite, I actually did a post last year about him here, so but that cd is so tight, that I had to include it again.

Ne-Yo does very little wrong in my book as far as music is concerned. Granted it can be a little pop-ish at times, but he continues to put out a solid cd, and at project #4, we know that music can get to be a little lacking and/or repetitive. That's one thing that I can say about him, his music is always refreshing.

Of course, the cd that the world was waiting for....

This half of the fire power group Floetry finally dropped her long awaited cd after 3239873490270 months of waiting, and it was worth every moment. Marsha definitely came out the gate with the bangers...and before you know it, you was in love with her the singer, not just her as part of the group. She brought back what it meant for good music, not just some randomness hollering over a bangin track. That lady got some classics on her cd, but this one has been speaking to me lately:

Mr. Cool himself, Lupe Fiasco is up next

This cd wasn't as hot as past projects to me, but this song right here makes it onto the playlists.

Lupe rhyming over a hot beat is what drew me to this...not to mention he's doing what he does best, spittin rhymes of consciousness. Be aware while noddin your head.

Of course, I couldn't finish this post without including Mr. Beat Her Up himself...

This dude can't stay out of the news for somethin or the other, but this song here can't stay off my iPod. It's just as hot as the other one I posted about here:

There were a few tracks on this cd of pop influenced cd that were head nod worthy...this definitely one of them. Congrats to Mr. Brown though for his first #1 cd...guess all that publicity helped him out eh?

I know I've left some off...shout out what music is flowing through your ears!

Will All the Real G's Please Stand Up

2011-03-17T21:45:00.000-04:00

And all be accounted for?
And if you don't give a fuck
About a bitch
Then you rollin with the Row

Yesterday we lost a great voice in the genre of hip-hop/r&b. Nate Dogg, one of the members of the Dogg Pound, passed away. He definitely was a great addition to the world of West Coast music...collaborating with the likes of Snoop, Dr. Dre, and Warren G to name a few.

Here are some of my favorites that he did with other members of the DPG:

I know we've all said this at one point or time in our lives...some of us probably still saying it. lol

From the Chronic II, Dre's sequel to his best seller The Chronic, this one features not only Nate Dogg, but Snoop and Kurupt as well.

How many of you was naming off different folks in different area codes that you had on the team?

And the song that made him most famous:

Regulate. Everyone knew this song. EVERYONE...if you didn't, you was losing. This came out in the midst of puberty, so all the young dudes was tryin to hit the deep note. Ha!

And to see how many of yall really listened to West Coast Music, a song that featured Nate by himself:

One More Day - from the Murder Was the Case Soundtrack. This was a very undercover soundtrack (and movie as well), but it was bumpin nonetheless.

Nate, the game is gonna miss you, but when you connect with your boys up in Heaven, yall gotta get one more in for old times sake. RIP Nate Dogg

The New Banger

2011-03-10T23:20:00.001-05:00

The new C. Breezy - the cd that everyone has been waiting for. Finally got a chance to peep it out, but I can't say that it's what I was expecting. It's different...and I say that because it has more of a pop edge to it than anything I've ever heard Chris put out before. But in the midst of all that's good and Justin Bieber (and I still can't believe that he did a song with that dude...*smh), Chris came back to the hip-hop side and produced something that saved his whole cd from joining the ranks of the N'Sync movement:

Hot beat, hot lyrics, and a trio that hasn't been done before. I gotta give this 4 mics (shoutout to the old Source).

This beat is so simple, but it works for what they are going for. Bussa Buss is bustin a hard rhyme as always, Weezy is doing what he does best, and even C. Breezy is trying to handle his own in the midst of two pros in the game. Definitely the best (or at least one of) the best on the CD that didn't necessarily get to me the way his previous cds have.

Breezy, the entire cd isn't something that I would go out and promote to the world, but this song right here, needs to be on everyone's radio, iPod, cd, or somethin. I see this being a headknocker for some time! Good job Son!

Ever Had the Feeling

2011-03-10T23:06:00.000-05:00

So this is a cd that's been on the rotation for a few days now....people knew that Marsha was gonna bring out a banger, but I don't think that many people understood just how good this cd was gonna be. The song below is one that's one of my personal favorites.

I love it because it has an old school Michael Jackson feel. I know that she and Michael have done some collaborations over the years, so I'm not surprised that she would do a track like this. But it makes me feel like Mike is still alive and well, and music is still good. I know there are others on the cd that should (and probably would) be favorites to others over this song, but it's just something about this song that makes the world alright with me.

The lyrics themselves aren't inviting. She's lamenting over a lost love...one that she wasn't ready for to leave. The words she speaks are the truth tho:

cause your don't love me anymore..
tell me why'd you go away....
I would give you anything..
it is you that I adore...
please baby..baby take my hand...
and I would show you the way...

I'm sure we've all been there before...may not have said it, but we know the feeling. If not, then someday, you'll see what she's talkin about.

Just as an aside, here is another song that she wrote for Michael, and it was a banger too (glad he did it, cause her version of this same song doesn't move me at ALL lol)

Prelude to 2011

2011-01-05T05:32:00.002-05:00

First off, Happy New Year! I know that it's been a while since I've done this, but I felt like I wanted/needed some time to gather my thoughts and mind together, so here we are. But it's a new year, so it's time for some new thoughts/music, and more to share.

I know that for a lot of us, 2010 was a year that we'd rather forget about in many aspects. Things as big as on a international level down to personal issues occurred and while they are things that we wish didn't, we'd rather leave them in the past. So I feel that for my introduction back into the blogging game, and as a prelude to 2011, this song has been sitting on my mind heavily:

There were things in my life that I knew shouldn't have happened, but because of God, I was able to receive them. And in the new year, I hope that it multiplies by many...not because I deserve them, but because He will supply my (and your) every need.

Hope this helps out someone who may need it, or if not you, then you can pass it along to someone you know may need it.

Be easy readers....and most of all, be blessed!

Freestyle Friday

2010-10-01T14:03:00.004-04:00

Who remembers when freestyle used to be in the basement with Rap City?

This was one of my favorite freestyle Fridays featuring Big Tigger and Lil Wayne:

Tigger lost it for a bit at the end (he got it back tho), Weezy started to show his lyrical genius (no wonder why his songs sound like they are coming off the top of his head...more then likely, they are..lol)

What's your thoughts readers?

Who Did It Better?

2010-09-28T17:21:00.001-04:00

I'm pretty sure I already know everyone's answer to this, but I wanna see what yall think:

Confunkshun:

Or Dru Hill:

I got my money on ConFunkShun, although Dru Hill's remake was kinda hot too.

What says you folks?

I Give Good Love

2010-09-23T17:33:00.001-04:00

I'll buy your clothes
I'll cook your dinner too
Soon as I get home from work

This is a throwback from back in the day. Back when R&B was off the chains, when you such talent like New Edition, Tony, Toni, Ton&e, and Luther Vandross was riding the airwaves. This was the type of music that was played on the Quiet Storm after 9. (How many of yall remember this? lol). Babyface was the king of making the woman feel like she was worth a pot of gold. This was one of my favorites from him.

Another one was this one right here:

This was a classic breakup song. People who fell in love, and over time....it just ended. I'm sure it's happened to all of us (or have seen it happen to people before).

For the Cool in You was one of those that just made you listen...and nod you head when you wanted a chill type song, not too fast, but not too slow. Shades on, and you showin "The Cool" in you.

This was one of the songs that brought about domestic abuse at a time when people didn't really stand up for it. Something that made people think about an issue that was slowly on the rise in the country.

And there were a couple of songs that featured Babyface that will always get play on my iPod:

Madonna....my all time favorite song by her. Babyface wrote and even sang this song with her. They made a GREAT duo in this one.

Not too many people knew about this song...and the fact that Babyface wrote and featured in this one came as a shock to many.

Babyface is one that is timeless. From the 80s even up to now, his music will never grow old to those that can appreciate a good R&B song.

Diggy Makes His Appearance

2010-09-16T17:43:00.001-04:00

OK...I'on know what it is about these young kids makin some hits and such....but I've been feeling the youthful moment (well some of it) lately. Last week I posted about Willow Smith whippin her hair around, and today I'm goin to another child of a major star, Diggy Simmons.

Diggy is talkin about some real grown up stuff in this song. I'm not sure what he would know about missing a girl that he loved in the teenage years, but I'm sure that he has his reasoning. LOL

But I'm sure we've had those moments when we missed that special someone in our lives...especially if you spent a long time with this person. Sometimes, you don't want to be back with them, but you do realize that you wonder if they still miss you like you miss them.

"i know were apart but you still got my heart and(i gotta know)
do you ever think about me"

That's kinda deep...especially for a teenager. But all in all, this applies to adults as well. So this song is not only applicable to real life, but the beat is kinda hot too. Diggy is tryin to come out knockin...

Whip My Hair!

2010-09-08T17:06:00.001-04:00

So yeaaaaah....back in the game now. I must say...that I had another song/artist in mind when I planned on making my return, but after I heard this song, I had to feature her:

Now upon first listen, you'd think that this was someone older....but when I found out who it was, I must say I was quite surprised. This is none other than 9 year old Willow Smith, daughter of Will and Jada Pinkett Smith. This song is a sleeper because I know expected NOBODY from the Smith family (outside of Will) to have talent like this. I guess I musta forgotten about his roots in the music industry before his acting career took off.

What's hilarious is that this 9 year old will make the likes of Rihanna, Keri, and all of them who are puttin out horrible music to shame...so when she blows up...look out. It's gone be nasty!

So ladies, whip ya hair back and forth (if you got any)....this is a pretty hot song to end the summer.

Ruff Ryyyyders....Mount UP!

2010-08-20T07:20:00.000-04:00

It's Friday....it's payday, and it's time to take it back one time. This album (Ruff Ryders Vol II) came out at the height of the days of RR and this was one of my faves from this song. It wasn't often that Drag-On put it down like this (in my eyes), but him coupled with Twista, and a bangin beat, OFF.THE.CHAINS.

Here's another one of my faves from the Ruff Ryders (Vol I though):

Eve...back when she was a "pitbull in a skirt". Another lady showing she can hold it down in the mist all the dudes in the camp. Brickhouse stallion for real.

Of course, I had to bring it in with the song from my ~~pledge~~ days:

[greek]This brings back memories because right after this CD dropped, I was online for "Sigma! Sigma! My Brothers! Alphas better get right, Kappas better get it right!"[/greek]

And you can't post anything about the Ruff Ryder camp without including the anthem, their theme song:

Drag-On featuring Juvey....another bangin combination, back when Cash Money was who you wanted on your tracks (even though in my opinion Weezy is much better now than he was back then lol).

It's Friday folks....let get it!

Let's Toast It Up!

2010-08-06T12:20:00.000-04:00

Got an addiction for life and this living
Like everyday's my birthday, know what I'm getting
And reserved for top notch that's where I'm sitting
Me and my friends and found 6 Miss Independents (Independents)

How many of us wanna do this right here?

This song is dedicated to the fact that it's Friday. Once we get off work, we're headed to the barber shop/beauty salon (if we didn't do it the day before), get into our weekend's finest, and we steppin out. I mean, everyone wants to get away from the week's ills of work and whatever and just float on #noelements to the good life.

I know for me and my boys, this rings true right here:

And my attitude's so chill and so breezy (breezy)
My designer suit, I make this look easy (easy)
Sexy baby, don't you dare act like you don't see me
Baby, I know you see me

Hey that's the attitude to have when steppin out. Can't have no "I ain't got it" mentality. LOL

And just for kicks...here's another Fun Friday song by Ne-Yo.

Featuring Ne-Yo when he first came onto the scene.

Let's toast it up!

You're the Blood in my Veins

2010-07-30T06:55:00.000-04:00

You're the air I breathe
On a hot summer day you're like a shirt with no sleeve

This is a deep song right here...full of power about the one you love. This song has been in my brain for a minute now, and I've been wanting to blog about it...so here it goes. I'm sure my readers know this song, but if not, then enjoy it.

Angie and Calvin...this is real. Why? Because they were dating when they recorded it...so I know at least ONE of them meant it. LOL

Now, here is the kicker: rumor is that when they broke up, Angie got mad and recorded this same song with Joe. How scandalous is that?!

But here is the other version...let's see which one you guys like better.

Leave your thoughts readers...be easy!

Thoughtful Thursday - When You Say You Love Someone

2010-07-15T06:05:00.001-04:00

How much do you really love that person? You say that you would go to the ends of the earth for them...and that's all well and dandy, but what happens when someone else catches your eye? You know your heart belongs to the person that you're with, but for some reason, this other person has caught your interest so tough, that you're in a dilemma. Donell Jones described how he would handle this situation:

I had a full blown discussion with a couple of people that I follow on Twitter about this topic. They said that this type of stuff can happen to anyone, no matter what the situation or how long they've been in a relationship. I tend to agree with them. You can't help who you fall in love with, and if you put yourself in their vicinity for long enough, you'll find yourself mixed up in an emotional battle that you weren't prepared for.

This sucks for a number of reasons: #1 being that the person that you're involved with has NO clue what's going on. They think that all is well in their life, when all along, they have no clue that the world that they know and love is about to come crashing down around them. #2 is because all the while, more than likely, you're about to lose something good because you allowed yourself to get caught up in the game. It's bad all the way around, but you got yourself into this situation....so it's up to you to get yourself out of it. There's plenty more reasons I could list, but we'd be here all day!

Now here's the kicker: I actually agree with the sentiment that he poses in this song. I'd rather you leave me alone, than to play me for the fool by juggling (or attempting to at least) a bunch of folks around while keeping me in the dark. So if you've got to roll out because of this, then I'll chuck you the deuces quick, fast, and in a hurry. It may hurt like hell, and we may not talk for quite some time, but in the end, I think I'd respect you more for ending what we have, than running around trying to hide it. I know this sounds strange, but it's the honest to God truth. I don't know if I can think of a single person who would say otherwise (at least truthfully). Think about it long and hard.

How do you feel about this topic? Readers...drop your thoughts!

Farewell to My Fallen Brother

2010-07-14T22:40:00.000-04:00

Lately, I've been feeling some kinda way about life in general...and although I have been receiving a lot of blessings as of late, something was keeping me down. Yesterday was especially bad, because I woke up just knowing that it was gonna be "one of those days", where I knew I was about to be in a bad mood. Then it hit me:

Today is my deceased brother's birthday. I'm not sure many of my readers knew I had an older brother, much less a deceased older brother. Well yep..I do. He passed away almost 13 years ago to an alcohol related accident. Although many years have passed, I still feel some type of pain whenever two specific dates come around: 1.) his birthday and 2.) the date he died.

Now I didn't write this post to gain any sympathy from my readers...but I always tell people that blogging/writing is very therapeutic for me, and that I always feel better after doing so. Also, I was told today that my blogging was missed, and that I needed to make that happen again. Not to mention, that I think this song appropriate in showing how I feel to my readers. I'm sure that we've all lost someone special to us in life, and at that time, you just didn't know how to say goodbye to them. To me, it's just as hard down the line to say that word, as it is fresh after that infamous day. I just look at it this way though...he knows what's goin on as I believe that he's looking down upon me right now...watching my every move.

Just as a bonus, I'm posting a song that was really popular around the time that he passed...I know. Don't judge me. LOL

Fortunate

2010-07-12T17:15:00.000-04:00

Nope...this ain't about Maxwell. Gotcha!

How many folks remember this dude:

This song was bangin....and then he just fell off the face of the earth. Like really? What happened to this dude? Maybe he shoulda hung out with some like minded people....like the 3Ts (Tony Toni Tone...and if you don't know who they are then you need to check this out.)

Hmmm....this dude coulda been a starrah. Unfortunately, he fell into that same river that Noel Gourdin been singin about since '47. But at least he got his 15 ~~secs~~ of fame offa this song. LOL

Where Do You Go....

2010-06-29T07:42:00.000-04:00

In time of trouble? How do you handle the situations of your life that aren't that great....well, I mean that have you downright ready just to snap? I know we've all been through those times before....so how do you handle it? Here is one song that I have on REPEAT when I go through those times.

Recently, I just felt like I had been under attack for no apparent reason. I always know something is going on when it feels like the world around me was crashing down on my head. Usually, when this happens, I start to listen to gospel music extra tough...just because I know where my help comes from. (that tidbit came courtesy of a post I read yesterday...shoutout to SIL). This song comes right in handy for me...because I know that regardless of what's going on my life, God will make a way.

Even though I can't see you
And I can't feel your touch
I will trust you Lord
How I love you so much
Though my nights may seem long
and I feel so alone
Lord my trust is in YOU
I surrender to YOU

Those are deep words right there. But those are the truth if you really think about it.

Here are a couple of songs that I love to listen to when I'm goin through:

Now if you know me, then you know that I'm always talking about a "quiet place" or "perfect peace". Honestly, in my mind, they go hand in hand with each other. Normally, when I go to my quiet place, perfect peace is what I'm looking for. It's what keeps me in focus when I'm about to go crazy.

And what I love about this time is that when it's over with, things normally come out 10 times better than when I started....which makes me appreciate THIS song even more:

Just when I thought all was said and done, God said "Not GUILTY". Shoutout to Thin Mint for puttin me onto this song.

I hope that this blesses someone immensely....and remember "you can't see the rainbow without goin through the RAIN".

Be Blessed readers!

Well Lemme Roll Me a Mic

2010-06-24T16:09:00.000-04:00

And let me smoke it til' I'm high
If you ever seen me rock than you know that I
Live and die for the things I do slang I use
Breakin' down mics and destroyin' crews.

Now I know that this is gonna get some #sideeyes because people weren't really feeling Kris Kross by the time that Young, Rich, and Dangerous came on the scene. Everyone knew that KK was on their last leg in the game, but they were here to show you that they weren't done just yet...matter of fact, they showin folks that they were back and on their grown up game.

Live and Die for Hip Hop was a banger out the gate. The beat produced by Jermaine Dupri (in his prime) brought in the song on a hype beat, and combined with Da Brat and Aaliyah, it had folks jockin them and respectin them once again.

I still like this song and bump it regularly. Granted, YRD wasn't their best cd...but this song was a hot track though. Even Jermaine had a bangin ending to the song...how you know it's off the chains. LOL.

Can't knock them for leaving the game on a high note...

Passion and Desire

2010-06-22T14:48:00.000-04:00

Come See Me

After going to the Jill Scott/Maxwell concert on Friday, listening to Jill sing this song live made me want to revisit it. Now I can't even put it down. I must say that this is one of the more sexy songs that I've heard put it down....and to hear it live was PHENOMINAL. Seriously, this song makes me wanna give it to her...while she was singin it.

Then she came right behind that singing this song.

Now I must admit, I didn't realize how much of a sexual cd this Vol 3 was. After hearing her singing these two songs...she made me go back and revisit it. Jill def did her thing on this cd.

But it's something within me that will always love original Jill.

"Who is Jill Scott"? That was the question that we all wanted to know.

One of my favorites from that cd was this right here:

This is CLASSIC Jill...when she sang about food and sex...and how sex made her want food...and food reminded her of sex.

She wants her dude to show her that he loves her instead of just saying the words. Honestly, it's interesting, becus I was having this conversation with someone not too long ago.

But nothing will ever....and I mean EVER top this song (although Come See Me is up there now). This will always be my #1 song by Jilly from Philly.

So what says you...which one do you prefer? Classic Jill or Sexy Jill.

Thoughtful Thursday: Is There a Cure?

2010-06-17T12:56:00.000-04:00

I know I've chatted about this song before, but as I listened to it more and more, it made me think about some things that I never would have thought about before.

Loveaholism....is there a cure for that?

Raheem DeVaughn seems to think that there is. Unfortunately, the problem is this: once you have it the first time, it would seem that you would be addicted to it. Now there's not a problem with being addicted to this "Love Drug"; but the real question is this: do you have to have this drug ALL the time, or is it that you can have it in doses?

I would think that this is one of those things that you SHOULD have in doses; yet and still, it's one of those that you WANT to have all the time. Let's face it; if you are deep in love, then you'll need it all the time. And there's definitely nothing wrong with that...especially if the love that you feel is requited by the object of your desires.

This "prescription" should be handled with care though. Cause it's been known to take you sky high when you're lip locked with that special someone. It should probably be dubbed "The Starship Enterprise"....cause it takes you where "no man has gone before". LOL. But on the real though, I've been there before. It definitely had me addicted, and not where I couldn't kick it, but I didn't WANT to kick it.

The sad part is that whenever you happen to kick this habit, that means that you're no longer in love. And nobody wants to be there...because being in love can be one of the best feelings in the world: to know that you love a special someone, and that special someone loves you back. So whenever you come across this particular drug, make sure that you get as much of it as you can.

The demand is always there, but the supply can run low at times. But I always got what you need.....

Cause I'm your Mr. Midnight pusher man.

I'm thinking of you

2010-06-15T17:13:00.000-04:00

In my sleepless solitude tonight
If it's wrong to love you
Then my heart just won't let me be right
Cause I'm drowned in you
And I won't pull through
Without you by my side

I've been wanting to post something for the past week, but my mind wasn't working on music mode due to music. But since I've given the canary off for the past couple of days, my mind is back to working in its normal capacity (whatever that may happen to be...lol). This is one of my...no scratch that....this is my FAVORITE song by Mariah. The one where I could feel the emotion pouring from her soul.

This song came from her Butterfly CD, circa 1997....right after the nasty divorce from Tommy Mattola of Sony Entertainment. Many people wondered how she was going to fair after that, being as though he was the one who really brought her into the game, but Mimi wanted to let the world (especially him) know that she wasn't going anywhere and she was gonna make it to the top...with or without him.

I thought about this song about reading blog postings earlier about love and intimacy...and both of them prompted me to think of this song. I don't know why, but I think that this song is the epitome of what REAL love and intimacy should be comprised of. Mariah is singing about a man that she loves SO much, that she'd be happy with just ONE night alone with him to show her love for him. That's some serious love to me. One day...just one day.

I'd give my all to have
Just one more night with you
I'd risk my life to feel
Your body next to mine.
Cause I can't go on
Living in the memory of our song
I'd give my all,
for your love
tonight

This is the Mimi that I know and loved...not this madness that she's turned into.

Just as a bonus...this is another one of my favorites from Meems.

Enjoy!

You Want my Love

2010-06-03T17:01:00.001-04:00

And you can't deny it...
You know it's true..but you try to hide it

This has always been one of my FAVORITE Earth Wind & Fire songs. The Elements (as I like to call them), always just jammed with it, and anyone who knows me (or even anyone who's read this blog) know I love a song that I can bob my head to. But honestly, it's hard to have just ONE favorite EWF song...because they made music that spans not only the 70s/80s when it first came out, but it seems to span across all decades, and especially across all (well most) generations. I can remember listenin to this music with my moms, as we'd be cleaning up the house, and she would put on her EWF albums. (Which I always loved...cause the other cleaning music was Isaac Hayes..*smh*).

My other two favorite songs are these right here:

Fantasy...always made me want to go on a magic carpet ride #nooutkast. (my true hip hop heads will know what I'm talkin bout..lol)

And those who know Mr. Philip Bailey, know him for this song:

Now be real with me folks? How many of you tried to hit those high notes that Philip used to hit in this song? Maybe not in public...maybe in the shower, or when you knew you were home alone. LOL

D'Angelo did a good cover of this song as well. Peep it out.

It's just too bad that his background singers are THEE worst. I don't understand how he couldn't hear that during rehearsals. LOL.

Have a good day readers and leave your thoughts!

I'm Single....for real

2010-06-02T16:41:00.001-04:00

In light of the recent video jumpoff that's being passed along, I figured I would provide the musical soundtrack for it. I mean hey...it just fits. This is dedicated to the chick who said she could "smash the homies" while on the phone with her boyfriend.

Now if you don't know what I'm talking about, please check out my boy Streetz' post on SingleBlackMale.org. Now here's the warning, this is NOT work suitable, and anything that you see in this video can NOT be held against me or the person whose site you saw it at. But yeah, she was REAL disrespectful wit it, and IMO, she deserves to blasted as such. But moving on....

This song is from Weezy's No Ceilings mixtape (although I'm not sure why there's a video for it...but I digress lol). When I first heard it, the beat automatically got me because I knew I heard it from somewhere else in a past time. Then I realized that it reminded me of beats from back in the day that used to knock like that. If you wanna know what song it is, click here. So it already caught me there...then to hear what he was talkin about, I thought it real coincidental that I hear that song after reading/watching the scandalocity (yeah I know I made that one up..lol) of that video.

But really tho...Weezy's words are probably what's goin through ole dude's mind that's videotaping her:

Uhh, now she got on her fuck em dress,
And I got on my double breast,
Uh, and he been fussing all day with her,
And I make her feel special like a place kicker,
She wanna be weezy f baby sitter,
Say she wish she could cut my dick off and take it with her <---I bet ole girl was wishin that one.

I know there are very respectable ladies who don't subscribe to the #swindle that ole guhl pulled, but when one gets down like that, the majority just get grouped in with. I know that it ain't like that...but she def was gully with hers. I think she listened to this song before she decided to get down on the dome like she did. LOL

Happy Feelings

2010-05-23T00:03:00.000-04:00

Today has been a really good day. It's only fitting that I blog about this song right here.

On the real tip, I think Ledisi did a GREAT job covering this track. Now, of course, this was on a cd full of covers, simply because it was a cd dedicated to Maze and Frankie Beverly, but I think that this was one of the more better covers of them all.

Makes me wanna pop open the sunroof, throw this on repeat and just riiiiiiiiiiide on out! What ya think peeps?

I Am Dust

2010-05-17T18:29:00.000-04:00

it's just another day
another episode
of hiding under the world
it's just another ray
of merciful hope

Have you ever felt like it's just another day...same wake up, do your normal mundane routine, and go to bed? Is it because your live is just that boring....or is it because of something else? Well according to Van Hunt...it's because he's goin crazy. It's something that he's become acclimated to.

Van Hunt is one of those people who is really a sleeper musician. He's got the style like Lenny Kravitz, but he makes it his own with his music. While many people know about Lenny, he's one of those people whose songs are sittin right under your nose, and you don't hear what he's talking about. He's definitely talkin about some real life stuff in his music.

I'm already insane
I'm already in pain
I'm already insane
I am dust blown away over the edge

Here is another one of life's little wonders:

We always see the big things that happen to us, but do we take the time to look around and look at the little things around us that bring us joy? I know me being a simple man, I do...but that's because it's so easy to make me happy. Shoot, just being able to laugh at the little things is what keeps me sane and not ready to slit someone else's wrists (well I do wanna do that sometimes...but don't judge me lol). I think he describes what I'm talkin about best here:

I hold on to the feeling
I don't know when I will feel it again
I've become amused by the little things
Seconds of pleasure

And finally...you can't mention Van Hunt without this song here. I think this is what made me start listening to his music on a constant basis:

This song is real deep...he's sayin that it's the pain he goes through makes it all worth it to be with her. You can't be in a real relationship unless you are goin through the lows as well as the highs with that person. I agree with him, because if the relationship is perfect, then 9 times outta 10, your relationship is boring. If it's boring, then it's gone have you lookin elsewhere for excitement. He's ready to go to Hell to love her while in Heaven. That's real right there...real deep. I think we all could get into that type of love. I know I could.

Don't Go

2010-05-13T17:05:00.000-04:00

I'm so glad to see you
Now I have the chance to say
Our love's been growing freely
What must I do to make you stay

This is one of my favorite En Vogue songs...back when fellas used to battle over whether Terry or Dawn was the baddest one. Back when we used to listen to how sweet their sounds were, even though they had very little rhythm. lol.

Also, here is another favorite by them...I know all the ladies who read my blog can attest that they were singin this song when it came out:

I know I wanted to be one of those dudes in the video...especially on the front row. lol. Enjoy!

Rainy Days

2010-05-11T17:22:00.000-04:00

Nah this ain't about that Ja Rule song featuring MJB...lol. It's a dedication to the weather outside, and if you know me, then you'll know that rain puts me in a relaxed state of mind. One where you wanna throw on some chill type music, kick back, and just enjoy....whether it be with your boo, or even by yourself.

This song is a perfect example of what's on my "Rainy Days" playlist. Soft soulful music like this, to help clear the mind of the day's ills. I've always loved this song even though this was nearing the end of what we knew as SWV, but they def went out with a bang.

Here is another one on my playlist:

This is a throwback/shoutout to 1994 when soundtracks were all the rage. This one is coming from the Sugar Hill Soundtrack featuring Kevon Edmonds (baby brother of great producing legend Babyface). Back in the time when harmonizing was what you wanted in life. Still love this song to this day. I'm sure all my REAL musicheads remember this one.

And you can't have a rainy day mix without the all-time favorite song about "rain":

New Edition's Heartbreak. Every black teen had a copy of this album (or at least should have..lol). Hearing these 5 dudes croon about how they had a love, and lost it, and having to stand the rain....granted, we were too young to know what they were talking about, but we loved the song nonetheless. Either way, we sang like we knew exactly what they meant. (At least I did).

And for good measure...here is a bonus track:

No explanation needed....at least I hope not. lol

A Dream...a simple FANTASY

2010-05-10T00:19:00.000-04:00

I'on know why...but I been on this song real tough lately. Honestly, this is a song that old as all getout, but it still bangs on the old skool tip.

The song is hawt. Period. Even though it's almost 20 years old. But then again, DeBarge music is just timeless (except that Chico ninja...can't STAND his music. Nothing like the rest of his family.)

Mary did a bangin job on her remake of it too....peep it out.

As a matter of fact, who do you think did better on it? Speak ya mind!

This is Siete's Testimony

2010-05-05T00:02:00.000-04:00

OK, this isn't really what the song says, but darnit, we all got a story right? I know we've all been through things where we just needed some uplifting. Here is Mary's:

Now anyone who is remotely a music person (or even removed their heads from up under the rocks) will know that Mary has been through A LOT in her days. From being strung out on crack, to being used and abused by K-Ci. So if anyone has a story to tell, it would definitely be Mary. Even though I say that I loved Mary the most during those days, there's a lot to be said about a woman who could endure what she did and still continue to live and sing about her past.

Lately, I've had some things goin on my life, where I can say that I've felt like I know where Mary's been...not necessarily the exact same situation (or really nothing like what she's been through), but my own personal drama. Sometimes, you just gotta look towards other people's storyline to put your own into perspective. And then there's also listening to the words that Mary speaks through this song:

Through my trials and tribulations
I still believe
That god had a greater plan for me
Exceeded all my expectations
But when he gave me what I need
And now I'm set free

Listening to this song definitely makes me feel better about what I'm going through...and I hope that she can do the same for you. Although this was from a pretty weak CD "No More Drama", this was one of the few standout songs. Actually it was because of this song and He Think I Don't Know that I even own this cd in the first place. lol.

I think that the hook drives the point home in this song.

This is my story
This is my song
(This is my song)
This is the day I celebrate
My trouble's are gone

If you can live your life following those words, then you won't have much to worry about.

I'm Not Meant....

2010-04-20T15:41:00.001-04:00

To live alone...
Turn this house into a home...

Today has been quite a day today. We lost 2 great people, from different cultures albeit, but great in their own right nonetheless. Today, we lost Dr. Dorothy I. Height, president Emeritus of the National Council for Negro Women and member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc., and also we lost Keith Elam known as G.U.R.U., 1/2 of the hip hop duo GangStarr. Both of these people inspired many people, and will be known for the work they did, as well as the lives they touched.

What people don't realize in the midst of this tragedy, is that another great legend was born. Luther Ronzoni Vandross was born on this day in 1951, and while he is no longer in the land of the living, I am dedicating today's post to a life that was great, instead of mourning the dead. And because of such, I want to post 2 of my other favorite songs by Luther (because I already did one...click here to see which one.)

This is the epitome of an I'm missing you song. I mean, if you sift through the words that he's using, you'll see that he's telling her that he misses her in the worst way. The items in the house are just items...but they come alive whenever she's there. That's real love right there...cause the house is cold and empty until she brings her love in and warms it up.

Next up is a song completely the opposite of the first one I just posted. Instead of them being together in real life, this relationship is "in his head".

This one is a classic "Fatal Attraction" song. He's fallen in love with a voice from the radio, and he's now imagined that she's equally in love with him as well. *smh* I'm not sure who/what did that too him, but can't you just see him standing outside her window, or in her bedroom while she sleeps?! LOL. I guess when she sings that "one song" so sweetly, that it's hard not to run up on it. I can't say I would, but hey...it is what it is.

These two songs right here (plus the one I already blogged about) are always in my rotation, and will stay in there. Mr. Vandross, you are added to the list of singers who influenced the game, and touched many people's hearts and ears through your gift of song. So on this day, I wish you a happy birthday, and hope that you're celebrating it with those gone on before you in Heaven.

I'll Be Obliged

2010-04-13T21:13:00.002-04:00

If you step outside
Because my ride is awaitin

Now everyone knows that I'm from Tennessee BORN AND RAISED, and while we're not known for much on the rap/hip-hop tip, we did have a few to make it out the hood and onto the vinyl/plastic. Memphis, known as 1-town, produced great legends 8Ball & MJG, and because of them, we have the everlasting pimptacular song:

When this dropped in '95, this was all that bumped in the great state of Tennessee. Not to mention that it was being featured on all of the top rap/hip-hop video shows (not like 106th and Park, but real ones like Rap City). Another one is

I'd drop this one onto the "songs I want my girl to give me a show to" list. (See here for that). I'm sure she'd get mad tips from me...and yeah I'd break her off some money for it too. lol

And of course, you know I can't forget about Grammy award winning Three 6 Mafia. See they were a sleeper group, and a lot of folks didn't know about them before they blew up. They were hawt in the TN streets since the early 90s when they had the not so nice image...but they still had a sick flow. To me, it actually kinda rivaled Bone Thugs' flow, such as in this song.

And of course, I can't forget the TN collaboration...one that still gets me hype whenever I hear it (which is whenever I want because it's on the iPod):

Here we have a super bangin collabo with Three 6 (Memphis), 8Ball and MJG (Memphis), and Young Buck (Nashville). All 3 verses are one that just keep the game lit up, not to mention that this beat is off the chains. Even though this dropped back in 2005, I bet you can still bump this in the South and it'll get folks madd hype. Matter fact, I still got this song on a "Get Krunk" playlist because of this verse right here:

MJ finna sprinkle in some of that,
super incredible, have a nigga runnin back
Where that nigga with the hood sticky number at?
Cuttin up a cigarillo like a lumber jack
In the mornin, when I need this and breath again a whole lotta weed but uh
I'm needin somebody to give me what I need
when I want nothin less then the best of the trees
DJ Paul and Juicy J, Eightball and MJG
And Young Buck we don't give a fuck we must represent this Tennessee
We drink a whole lot of Hennessy
Nigga got a lil hair on his chest
Do me like Bill Clinton girl, take it out ya mouth
we'll shoot it right down on your dress

And that my friends ends the tour into the musical styles of Tennessee...I hope you've enjoyed your tour and please...come again!

You Should Be Here

2010-04-12T17:07:00.000-04:00

Two of r&b's good talented singers (at that time anyways), join together and make a bangin song. Raphael Saadiq and D'Angelo collaborate and this is what you get:

The song is hawt. Ain't no ifs, ands, or buts about it. And honestly, they put out the words that a lot of men want to tell their ladies (or side pieces, or jump offs....lol)

I just wanna drive you crazy
You should be here in the mornin' time
When I'm makin' my breakfast
You should be here beneath me
To feel me, to heal me
You should be here to ride me
To trap me and climb me

This was back when D'Angelo still had a career and before Raphael fell off the ends of the earth. D was still riding high offa "How Does It Feel" and Raphael had just ended a great run with the 3Ts (if you don't know who I'm talkin about then click here)

This was just on my mind and I thought I'd share it with the world...or at least those that read this blog. LOL Enjoy!

What's On My Mind

2010-04-05T16:51:00.001-04:00

So the long awaited cd has finally dropped. People heard the first single, and then was amazed at the video that came along with it. I don't think that people were ready to see you strip down in real life in the middle of a major street in Dallas, TX. Well guess what, she's here, and she's letting the world know that she ain't playing the game anymore, because the game is hers for the taking.

This is definitely a change-up in the game from her first cd "New Amerykah, Pt. 1: 4th World War". It reminds me of her old style, which drew me to love her in the first place. I'm not going to go into that, mainly because I've done that already here, so you can read my thoughts on the first two cds. Only thing I didn't like about this is that it's super short...by the time you get into it, it's about to go off.

But she ended it on a great note with this song:

This song right here is the perfect song to end it on. It's almost like she's having flashbacks to when she and ole dude were together, but on the brink of being separated for good. Not sure if anyone else thought about this (although I know one person already has..lol), but this is giving me Green Eyes precedence. Think about it...she's talking bout all the things that she'd do for him, and all the while, realizing that she's been the fool for him. Green Eyes is just picking up where she left off. I also like the way she sampled different songs (such as Junior Mafia's Get Money and Sweet Sable's Old Time Sake).

All in all, I'll give this a 3.5 out of 5 stars. I think that if she would have made it a bit longer then I would have given it a higher rating. But I must say, this was a good comeback, cause in my opinion, she hadn't had a banger since Mama's Gun. This is a good rideout cd. It's somewhat a bitter in a love lost sort of way, but I don't see it making women want to go out and start stabbin up people's tires or bustin out windows. I endorse it.

Good job Erykah! You ain't lost it after all.

Are We Living in a Dream World?

2010-04-02T01:10:00.003-04:00

Are your eyes still green girl?
I know your sick and tired of arguing
But you can't keep it bottled in

Yeah I know I haven't blogged in some time, but it's been a busy month of March...you know with me celebrating my 30th birthday, and all the odds and ends in between. I haven't had time to properly have some alone time with my blog. Well that's all ended, and I got ideas flowing out the ears that I want to put down on paper (well electronic paper..lol).

Today's post is about the beginning and end of a relationship. I've already done in betweens and what it's like when we want to express our feelings to our ladies. But today's artist is one who gave me a song about falling in love with someone, and in the next breath, it's all goin to shambles in a fiery death. Honestly, I'm sure all my readers can feel me on this one. What's even more funny is that these are my two favorite songs by Mr. Common (Sense). The first one:

This song always gives me hope that there can (and will be) someone for everyone. Even though you've had to go up the rough side of the mountain in order to get to that person, once you've gotten to him/her, then it's all gravy. You can tell that person that they can leave the past behind on this present day, because it's me + you = the future. These words just let you know right here:

Put down your bags love
I know in the past love
Has been sort of hard in you
But I see the God in you
I just want to nurture it
Though this love may hurt a bit
We dealing wit this water love
You even give my daughter love
I want to build a tribe wit you
Protect and provide for you
Truth is I can't hide from you
The pimp in me
May have to die with you

Now once you and said significant other have established that relationship, then all is well for the rest of eternity right? Not quite. We all know that this ain't the old days, when relationships stood the test of time. These days, you're lucky to see 5 years in the game. This song talks about that other end of the relationship game:

I dig this song because he describes the afterthoughts of a breakup....you know that you should be done with this person, but I mean hey, sometimes it's not that easy to let go. I mean, if you were that involved with that person, you may never let go of that person, even though you know that in order to progress forward....I recommend this to those who have been there with that significant other, that you just can't seem to let go of.

Even though Common got turned out by Erykah Badu, he still can produce a good cd. I just hope he gets his act together and gets back into CDs like Finding Forever.

Big City, Bright Lights

2010-03-22T23:46:00.000-04:00

Sleep all day
Fuck all night...
Baby I'ma
Oh baby I'ma

Now for those of you who remotely know me, know that for me to say that I don't like Rihanna's latest CD, would know that's a strong understatement. I think I was very disappointed because I expected a lot more from her CD than what she gave me...but I was able to find a couple of tracks I liked and this was one of em:

This song is def worthy of bump. Rihanna is showing the true essence of her "Good Girl Gone Bad" in this song, while she describes the life of a rock star. I know a lot of people have heard of this, well listening to this song, you'll get it verbatim. She also telling you that to be a rock star, you got to have a slight issue in the brain...well maybe more than a slight one (read psychotic here).

Six inch walker
Big sh** talker
I never play the victim
Id rather be a stalker

Wildn out
A crazy house
With my white jacket on
Wont you come
And sign me out

I always said a song that has a bangin guitar riff was one worthy of my praise..well this song not only has a bangin guitar riff, but it's got a beat drop to match it. It makes me wanna go take guitar lessons just to be able to imitate this riff! "The only thing Im missing is a black guitar"

Hey...I'm just sayin.

Even though I hated Rated R, this song gets 2 thumbs up. I say this song is the best one of the entire album, which ain't sayin much, but still...it's a banger nonetheless!

Im a rockstar!

I Know A Place Where We Can Go

2010-03-19T08:07:00.001-04:00

Today's post came from a CD I didn't necessarily like, simply because it was too commercialized for my tastes. There are certain artists that don't fit the mainstream profile in my eyes, so when they try to "mainstream" their music, it's a complete and ultimate fail. But out of that dark cloud of a cd, this song was one of the VERY FEW silver linings.

It's a combination that one wouldn't expect to pop, but I think it did, and quite well might I add. Because I didn't really give Kingdom Come my full attention when I gave it the listen, I really didn't peep this song too tough. When I saw JL in concert, he sang this song, and that's when it caught my attention. So I had to revisit it, and realize that it really was better than I thought it was.

Yall know me..I'm all about a song with a bangin beat, and words to ride to. This definitely fits into that category...and honestly, I think that this was one of the few songs that could fit in with any of the other cds that Jay produced. As stated earlier, with the likes of Hollywood and Show Me What You Got, commercialism was about to take over that cd with a vengeance, but then this song and a couple of others saved it from taking that fiery death into mainstream (and also kept it from being his WORST album to date *#shoutout to those who thought that Roc La Familia was a good album...all 12 of yall*)

I guess the moral of this story is, don't judge a song becus of the rest of the cd...lol. Happy Friday!

You're Like a Mirror to My Soul

2010-03-17T12:41:00.001-04:00

...but a queen
And finally now I know just what that means

I'm not sure why this particular song has been runnin TUFF in my mind over the past few days. I DO know that it's been on constant repeat in my brain (and on the iPod, and on YouTube as well), but eh, it is what it is.

For those of you who remember pudgy Usher singin "Just Call Me a Mack", here is the new and improved, grown up Usher. I attest a lot of this "maturity" to what he's been through in the past few years between relationship issues with Chilli, getting married and becoming a father, not to mention coming into his own as an artist. I also think that what he has endured enabled him to sing this song with such conviction that makes you believe that whomever he's singing this song to is "The One" for him.

Previously, I did a post on wedding songs, but I'd definitely add this one to my list. Only thing is that instead of him singin it, I'd sing it to my wife (yeah, betcha didn't know I could keep a tune...lol). Or if not that, this would definitely be the first dance song....cause this is the impression that I'd want to leave in her mind from the moment that I say "I Do".

No matter how far I go
And no matter how long it takes
No one or nothing can change
Forever yours here I stand

She Gives Me Love

2010-03-11T16:59:00.003-05:00

Today we're taking it back to the old school. 1994 to be exact. Freshman year of high school....the world was just learning of a man who introduced himself to the world singing high pitches of "One Last Cry" - Mr. Brian McKnight. His sophomore album gave us one of my favorite songs by B. Mac:

Crazy Love is exactly what it is. That love that is undefinable, yet you still wanna partake in it. It's not slow and sappy, but still romantic enough to let it get you where you wanna be with that special someone.

I can hear her heart beat from a thousand miles
Hear the heavens open, every time she smiles
And when I come to her, that's what I belong
And I run into her, like a river strong.

She gives me love, love, love, love
Crazy love

That's real....if you can define your lady/man like that, then you just might have found the one for you. This is when I really started to actually appreciate music by Brian.

Here is the another reason why:

Now don't judge me on this one. Cause after you've been all lovey dovey, don't act like yall ain't gone get it in...(just hopefully not in the back seat....but if so, then be owt. lol).

What's Beef?

2010-03-10T13:15:00.002-05:00

And nah, I ain't talkin about what's for dinner...or even where is it. I'm talkin about that stuff that got niggas shot up about....that stuff that produced many a bangin track, cause someone decided to rip someone apart.

Here is how beef is described by Biggie:

What's beef? Beef is when you need two gats to go to sleep
Beef is when your moms ain't safe up in the streets
Beef is when I see you
Guaranteed to be in ICU, one more time
What's beef? Beef is when you make your enemies start your Jeep
Beef is when you roll no less than thirty deep
Beef is when I see you
Guaranteed to be in ICU...

Today is a special day in the life of hip-hop, because this is the day that the great Notorious B.I.G. was murdered. Biggie was one half of one of the greatest beefs to ever hit music (2Pac being the other). I know folks loved to hear those two go back and forth about everything from style/swagger to cliques they rolled with. To me, Biggie kept it real, raw, and uncut. It was what it was. And that's all it was goin to be.

Even though he only dropped 3 albums (well some say 2, but eh #kanyeshrug), his flow and music was nothin to be effed with. Biggie dropped tracks that were club bangers (and some of them still are), those that were ride outs in the car, and even those that riled up the inner thug in you (that's if you got some of that).

I already posted once about my favorite song by Biggie - see here, but here are some of my other favorites that I always bang on the iPod...even though they all came out in the 90s.

10 Crack Commandments: Rules that all street pharmaceutical salesmen should live by.

Who Shot Ya?: During the height of the Biggie/Pac battles. Biggie wasn't playin. lol

One More Chance (remix): This song was so great, that even Ashanti could bite the music and make a hit. lol

You're Nobody (Til Somebody Kills You): This is the real though. People don't know you til you're no longer here.

Fuck Me: Real raunchy, but this interlude was HILARIOUS!

Livin the Life: One of the best tributes to Biggie. Snoop, Luda, and Bobby V set it out on this one.

Biggie, your lyrical mastermind will always live on. RIP Christopher Wallace

What's that #1 Zodiac Sign? PISCES!

2010-03-05T18:54:00.000-05:00

This one is dedicated to guess who? That's right? ME!!!!

Happy Birthday to me....it's Dirty 30 and I'm lovin it already!

Mellow Monday

2010-03-01T20:03:00.003-05:00

I had to take it back to 1995, and shout out one of the best CDs that came out that year (if not the best one...I know that was a good year for music). This CD was one that introduced the world to the man known as D'Angelo, and when he busted onto the scene, he came out SMOKIN. This is the song that made me instantly dig "Brown Sugar" once I first heard it:

Honestly, there are plenty of songs that could have made the favorites list, because that whole cd was one big banger from beginning to end. But this song has that laidback feel to it...like you could be in a club somewhere, watching him perform this with a live band behind him. Anyone who knows me, knows that's my type of atmosphere. Don't get me wrong, I can get it krunk with the best of em, but I'm more into gettin my grown man on these days...and music like this helps move the flow along.

Now there are other songs from this CD that I have to play whenever I listen to this CD. I know all my 90s music heads probably have their own favorites, but I betcha that the choices overlap in some sort of way.

Brown Sugar: This title song was the tune in everyone's ear when it first dropped.

Cruisin: The remake of the old Smokey Robinson hit...D'Angelo definitely did it justice.

Shit, Damn, Mutherfucker: When steppin out on your dude goes completely to the left...she shoulda quit while she was ahead, and not dead. lol

Higher: A religious kick with a smooth jazz tone. I like it!

Music like this is why I still ride hard for the 90s. Nothing will ever touch it. NOTHING!

What Else Is Left?

2010-02-25T11:20:00.000-05:00

So I've decided to jump back into the 90s for a bit, because honestly, that's the best era in which music captured my attention. I've done posts on 90s Girls and 90s Guys, and listed some of the groups that I felt helped shape 90s music into what we know and love today. Well today, I am going to focus on one of my favorite songs from the group Dru Hill.

This song came from their sophomore album "Enter the Dru" and instantly, the second CD became a hit just like the first one. Following their formula of starting out upbeat, and ending on a very slow note, this one was no different. This song instantly caught my attention, and I loved it from that moment on. The first reason being that because Sisqo wasn't the FIRST and ONLY person singing a verse.

I honestly think that Nokio held his own on this song. I know a lot of people didn't think that he could actually sing, because he never does, but I guess you learn something new every day. The song itself speaks volumes....exactly what DO you when you can't do anymore...or when you THINK you can't do anymore?

What are we gonna do?
What are we gonna say?
Where are we gonna go?
When they find out...

Scoopin Em Up

2010-02-23T15:37:00.000-05:00

So of course I had to grab this one out of the archives...but it's still a bangin song to this day. I know the dudes wanted to be Raekwon, at least in this video, and the girls had their description already on deck:

Watch these rap niggaz get all up in your guts
French-vanilla, butter-pecan, chocolate-deluxe
Even caramel sundaes is gettin touched
And scooped in my ice cream truck, Wu tears it up

This video debuted in the height of the Wu era, when everyone was throwin up the "W", and bangin out to the likes of Method Man, GZA, RZA and Ol' Dirty Bastard. This song is good for bumpin during the summer time when all the ladies have on their tight fitted shirts and some even had the shirts with their "flavor" on it. Those were the best.

So ladies tell me, which flavor were you?

I Want to Get AWAY!

2010-02-19T16:27:00.000-05:00

I dunno what it is about 4 day workweeks, but I swear it seems like they are LONGER than it would with a regular 5 day week. Maybe it's because all of the work from the day you missed is compiled with the work from the rest of the days in that week, or maybe it's just because you enjoyed the 3 day weekened that you normally wouldn't be able to have. Who knows....I don't. I know I do feel like this at the end of a 4 day workweek:

Lenny pretty much summed up my whole feeling with these words:

I wish that I could fly
Into the sky
So very high
Just like a dragonfly

I fly above the trees
Over the seas
In all degrees
Just anywhere I please

This has been a VERY long week for me work wise. But listening to this song lets me know that Lenny is feelin me, and I'm diggin this song. Not to mention that the guitar riffs in this song are HAWT! I know that guitar riffs are a general part of a rock song, but the ones in this song are worthy of a head rock Beavis or Butthead style (how many of yall remember them?).

Even tho it's only 2 days of "rest" from the job, I'm glad to have em. It's two days I don't have to deal with the troubles of the world (at least not professionally).

I want to get away
I wanna fly away
YEAH
YEAH
YEAH!

I Shot Ya!

2010-02-16T16:46:00.004-05:00

One thing we don't see much of anymore is a group collaboration where EVERYONE on the track is spittin the bangin lyrics. Here is one of my favorite ones from the 90s, where all the folks are bustin out the "hawt fiyah". lol.

Around this time, LL Cool J was starting to take another route toward a more lovey dovey, "softer" James Todd Smith; gone are the days when folks used to "forget Oreos and eat Cool J cookies". But here, LL showed everyone that not only did he not lose that side of him, but he could hold his own on a track full of stars. Keith Murray introduced this track with a bang, and Prodigy followed right up behind him with another tight verse. Fat Joe, as always, brought the heat, but even the Madame of the Firm, Foxy Brown, showed the men that this was no longer "a man's world". LL ended it with the same energy as the rest of em.

Kudos folks on this. A lot of songs only do 2-3 people at a time, and not all of them are cohesive with each other. I think a lot of folks don't realize cohesion is the biggest part of any group collabo, and if the crew isn't cohesive, then the song is gonna fail. Here's another one that is a bangin remix: starting off with Young Jeezy and followed by more nice flows:

DJ Khaled couldn't have picked a better group (well I probably wouldn't have chosen Rick Ross, but even he brought it.) Can't even front...this is probably one of the most bangin group collabos this millenium.

We need more songs like this...if folks can bring it like this at least 85% of the time, then music can still stand a chance! Don't tear down your desk/office listening to this. I can't be held accountable. :-D

My Funny Valentine

2010-02-14T16:21:00.002-05:00

Sweet comic valentine
You make me smile
With my heart

Yeah I know I said I wasn't goin to post on Valentine's Day, but I had some extra time to kill, and I figured I'd bless those in love (and even those not in love) with a love song. Now I figure, since I posted the upbeat love song on Friday, that I would post one of my favorite songs to listen to....not just on Valentine's Day, but any day where you can say that you have a "Valentine".

This is the perfect song to define love...she (well not really she, because this is a remake) but the writer of the song acknowledges that "your looks are laughable, unphotographable..." but yet and still "you're my favorite work of art".

Not gonna get into this whole spill about that's what love should be about...cause different people have different meanings. So I'll just say this, to ME, that's what love should be about. Knowing that nobody will be perfect, but if they are perfect to YOU, then you've achieved what very few have been able to do.

To all of my readers out there, I'll leave you with this simple phrase to kids from 1-92:

"But don't you change one hair for me,
Not if you care for me,
Stay little valentine stay.
Each day is Valentine's Day.

Love to all my readers and Happy Valentine's Day!

Cupid Reigns Supreme!

2010-02-12T13:32:00.000-05:00

First off...I'm pretty sure that I won't be anywhere near my blogger (heck I don't plan to be at home...but eh we'll see on that one), so this is going to be my dedication to the holiday of "love" (and these days, baby making...lol). Now I'm sure that everyone will be posting love songs, slow and romantic and sappy, but I decided to take an upbeat direction in my post to those who have reason to celebrate this holiday. Me personally, yall know I'm all for those types of songs, but this is the one song that always pops in my head when I think about Valentine's Day #dontjudgeme:

Well we've all heard of the infamous Punxsutawney Phil, the ninja groundhog that cursed us to 6 more weeks of winter (and Mother Nature complied with NO hesistation), Jolly Ole St. Nick, the Easter Bunny, and all those other things made up to keep holidays pure for the child's mind. Well this one isn't or rather shouldn't be for the children...because I dunno how I feel about Cupid Valentino goin around shootin the kids with arrows. I mean I'm all for love, but how much do you know about love at age 6?!

In this song, Cupid is the hero of this here love song. And he's lurking around trying to find out his next "victim" of his love arrow. The problem is that nobody wants to believe in Cupid like they do the others.

Ya' won't believe in me, but you would fancy
leprechauns or groundhogs
No thank you, Easter Bunny!

I for one get into love...and even though nobody has actually "seen" Cupid, I believe that he exists and shoots people when they least expect it. Don't sleep...cause you know deep down, you believe in love as well. SOMETHIN has got to propel it, why not believe in Cupid?

So to all of my lovebirds...be good...or be good at it. *snickers*

Happy Valentine's, Happy Valentine's
Happy Valentine's Day, Happy Valentine's Day!

So Let's Crawl

2010-02-10T12:46:00.000-05:00

OK...in light of all that's been happening with Mr. Brown, I still think that he produced a damn good cd. Unfortunately, what happened between he and Rihanna put a damper on the selling ability of the cd, but that's not why he's the featured artist on today's blog.

This song right here...I think he really put his whole heart and soul into it (and I could be safe to say that the whole cd is a myriad of feelings toward and about his relationship with Rihanna). But this song is one that instantly caught the ear and mind...at first it was just because it sounded good, but as I listened more and more to it, the words started to pop out at me.

So where do we go from here
With all the fear in our eyes?
And where can love take us now?
We've been so far down, we can still touch the sky

If we crawl 'til we can walk again
Then we'll run until we're strong enough to jump
Then we'll fly until there is no wind

Yeah, this right here, shows that a man can make a mistake and can own up to it. Not only that, but he wants to right what wrong he committed. I think that if he and Rih had actually tried, they could have made it back to where they were before the beating incident happened. Even if they decided not to make it work, I think this song still applies to them, in the fact that they could still be friends after it was all said and done.

C. Breezy, I feel you on this song...I've been there before, and it's not a good look in the direct aftermath of all that happened. But if you and Rih can get back to good terms, then all of the purpose of this song will be fulfilled. Good luck to ya Son.

So let's crawl, crawl, crawl
Back to love, yeah

All Night Long

2010-02-05T22:52:00.001-05:00

I must say...this was one of my favorite songs by the First Lady of Bad Boy, Faith Evans. I always get into an upbeat jam that'll make me nod my head to the beat, and this is what it did. Low key, I always felt like taking a trip to the roller skating rink and doin a couple of laps around the rink for old times sakes. LOL. I think what really attracted me to this song is that you don't really hear much upbeat music from Faith, so when I heard this one, it instantly caught my ear...

Another song that I love from her is this one right here:

Actually, I think this is my favorite song of hers...with All Night Long coming in a close second, both hailing from her "Keep the Faith" cd. I think that the pairing of her and 112 really hit the mark. Don't get me wrong, she's done some really great work with other people, but this song right here, will (and already has) go on the playlist that gets rotated while we groovin. (Keepin it PC...this is a family oriented site people..lol).

This song right here used to knock...and actually it still does:

featuring an up and coming Carl Thomas, this song is one that goes on the chill playlist. I was feelin this song the moment it came out, and the beat goes HARD. For real though...it's too bad Carl didn't blow up like he should have. But then again, he was a product of Bad Boy...so what were we supposed to expect? lol

And although I wasn't the biggest fan of her 2005 album:

This was one of the few silver linings that saved that CD from being a total flop to me. I wasn't really impressed with it, because it seemed that she tried to be too "hip" and the features of Mario Winans, they DEFINITELY could kept. But for some reason, I really liked this song. It kinda had a "lounge club" feel to it. Like I need to be sittin in a darkened club with a glass of Henny at my table and just kinda noddin my head to the beat while she serenades the entire room. LOL

Faith, we're waiting for another cd to drop from you. We need some good R&B to touch our ears once again, and I think that you're the just the lady to do it.

The Soul of a Man

2010-02-04T17:11:00.000-05:00

Hey ladies....you ever wondered what it would be like to look into the deepest innards of a man and figure out what he's thinking? Do you ever wonder if he's into you as much as he says that he is. What would you think if a man ever told you that this is how he thinks of you:

That's right...he's just THAT into you. This song here should bring any doubts you have to a crumbling pile. I mean listen to the lyrics that he sings.

If I ever leave you baby
You can say I told you so
And if I ever hurt you
You know I'd hurt myself as well
Is that any way for a man to carry on
Do you think I want my loved one gone
I love you...more than you'll ever know
More than you'll ever know

The original, sung by the late great Donny Hathaway, inspired Kenny to cover this, and I must say, he covered and quite well. Unlike other covers, where they tried to channel the spirit of Donny himself, Kenny took this song, and made it his. Of all the versions of this song, Kenny's, I must say, is the best one (maybe this is what he sang to Chante').

Coming from the CD Soul of a Man, I think that this is the best song on that cd. Not sayin that the other songs aren't good, cause this is a great cd, but I think that this song is what puts it over the top. Of course it came from a great mind, so all Kenny had to do is put his own personal spin on it.

So tell me..how do you feel if your significant other told you this:

I'm only flesh and blood
But I'll be anything that you demand
I could be king of everything
or just a tiny grain of sand
Is that way for a man to carry on
Do you think I want my loved one gone
I love you.....more than you'll ever know

Hopefully, you'll love him just as much if not more.

Snowy Days

2010-02-02T23:33:00.001-05:00

As I sit here looking out the window at the snow (for the 23789329703 time this year), I think about music that I'd listen to if I was sittin there with that special someone. Sometimes, music is all that's needed in order to get the mood right and tight. And here's one song that I definitely would have playing (and maybe more than once):

This is, has, and always will be my favorite Luther song. True enough, it's talkin about creepin around, but that withstanding, it's the perfect song to play while sittin in front of a fire with the boo, while drinkin some hot chocolate with Bailey's (~~or Henny #dontjudgeme~~). lol. Really, he's promoting steppin out on the one you're with to be with the one you're diggin, but let's be real, how many of us have done (or even thought) about doing the same thing. Especially when it seems that the grass is greener on the other side.

In reality, he's tellin her that he's willin to be her "one night stand", and that it'll be worth it to hold her for one night. (she must got that good stuff...lol)

Your eyes say things I'll never hear from you
And my knees are shakin too
But I'm willin, willin, too go through

I must be crazy
Standin in this place,
But I'm feelin your disgrace
For askin

Hey...you both know what it is. It's just a one time thing (which might turn into something more in the future), but for right now, all you wanna do is:

Let me hold you tight
If only for one night
Lemme keep you near
To ease away your fears
It would be so nice
If only for one night...

Lyrical Misses

2010-01-31T22:57:00.001-05:00

In the rap/hip-hop game, the female emcee doesn't get nearly enough credit for their flow. In all honesty, the female lyricist, at times, brings it better than some of the dudes do. Well tonight, this is about those ladies who bring the game to their knees with the words they spit from their tongue.

First off, startin with the Mama of the No Limit Family: Mia X. Mama Mia as she was affectionately called, she always had a good verse on everyone else's cd, but when she released her album "Unlady Like", to me, she solidified herself as a lyricist. Here's my favorite song from that cd - Let's Get It Straight.

She let it be known that No Limit was about more than just P, Silkk and C Murder. She announced herself to the world as not just a featured artist, but that she could drop a CD and it be just as tight as others in the No Limit Family.

Next up, the madame of the The Fugees: Lauryn Hill or L-Boogie. Now I know I already did a post about her, but there was one song that I didn't include in that post, and that one song actually fits into this post. (Good job me...*high five*).

Lauryn is so cold because not only can she rap, but she can sing as well. So it works when you can incorporate both in the same song BY YOURSELF. Very few people can do that...and nobody in today's times can even attempt to do this. You gotta give her props on that one. I just need her to come back...We need you Lauryn!

Last but not least, even though she's changed over time, her early years with Bad Boy made Lil' Kim a force to be reckoned with. Kim was raunchy as hell, but she made it sound easy as hell to describe how she could still be a lady while doin some things that I won't mention on here. lol. Example A, B, and C right here:

My all time favorite song by Kim. She kept it real and raw, and nobody could keep it 100 like this all the while still gaining respect from the industry for being a lyrical emcee. As B.I.G.'s protege, she learned a lot from another great rapper. I wish she would revert back to those days as well.

These 3 ladies put these wannabes of today's times to shame. Maybe they need to hold a workshop to let these breezies know that what they THINK they are doing can't hold a candle to what a REAL emcee of the female gender should be doing. I got a few suggestions on who SHOULD attend. LOL

Flashback Friday - The Man Right Chea!

2010-01-29T15:43:00.001-05:00

In light of the man Mystikal gettin out of jail recently, I thought I'd pull out some old school, get it krunk music and revisit my youth (well part of it anyways..lol). But what I didn't realize was that I would remember how much I would get krunk listenin to his music. Here is the song that started it all off:

This is very reminiscent of when I used to party all the time in undergrad. Mystikal was the one who could get the party crackin...especially if you heard the right song. Like this one right here:

Uh ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!! Even if you were the most prim and proper of folks, this is what set you off. You rush to the middle of the floor and just get real riled up and start poppin off. Now the thing about this song, is that it was known to start fights cus errybody was a bit TOO krunk. But hey, it is what it is. *shrugs*

This was another club banger right here....just gettin errybody on the floor.

I do remember gettin it in to this song (not like that people....if you thought that, then #killyoself). It's a good dance joint...and you "shouldn't" be tired after twerkin to this. Don't believe me: try it for yaself. :P

But in real life, this is the song that jumpstarted his career though:

Folks don't understand...that this beat was the LIVEST in '95 when this song dropped. I mean you heard this song EVERYWHERE. Like for real...lol.

And last but not least, where he featured with Silkk the Shocker:

#dontjudgeme for liking this song. I wish it was a bit longer, where he coulda spit one more verse for em.

Welcome back Mystikal. The game has missed you...time to show these youngins how it's really done.

Uhooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooohhh!

You the ONE!

2010-01-28T14:16:00.000-05:00

Today's post is gonna be a bit more upbeat than previous ones...simply because things are looking much more up. Today, I'm gonna take it back to the A, where the Dirty South has been known to get a party up and jumpin. I know that I'm not the only one who gets up and gets krunk when they here this song:

This is the ghetto man's anthem to tell his boo how much he diggin her. Low key, this is a hot song featuring T.I. and of course, Jazzy Pha gone produce a hawt tune to put this to. How many of you women who've heard this song "put your finger in the air cus you the one"? lol. It's okay, I won't tell anybody about it. lol.

Here's another one of my favorites by Cee-lo:

See, this is where my Dirty South roots come out. Cus I be up here, and folks be givin me the :-\ look when I hear this in the club and instantly wild out. LOL. It's okay though, cus these folks should be reppin since Timbo droppin sounds and lyrics in the song and he from the two up/two down. Honestly, this is runnin a SERIOUSLY close second to The One.

Here is another slept on joint from Cee-lo:

This one is featuring another ATLien by the name of Luda. Of course you know that just about anything that Luda touches turns to gold...lol (but no, really..lol). This beat is really silly, but of course, if you know Cee-lo, then you know he's really about being silly, and I really don't think that Luda has any sense either. But I think it's a good song just to listen to and wild out to.

And the final one isn't upbeat at all, but this joint is real off the hook:

Folks don't know about this song....but if you smoke, you'd want this as your anthem. (#dontjudgeme...I don't even smoke..lol). But on the real though, if you want some jus chill music, where you can just lay back and enjoy the scenery, then this would be it for you. No words (for real), but the tune will do all the work that you need it to do.

Cee-lo is definitely an underrated artist. He be on some real ish, although sometimes it gets lost up in the mix of the music...and he's still one of the real artists left from back in the day up to now.

What's On My Mind

2010-01-26T13:23:00.001-05:00

This is something that I'm gonna be doing weekly. A post dedicated to what's on my mind at that time, while using music to illustrate the point.

Last night, I was watching "Intervention" (which is a good show BTW), and Robby from City High was on there. He was having a serious alcohol problem, and his family/friends were trying to get him to participate in an alcohol abuse substance program. Anywho, his girlfriend/mother of his daughter was telling him how much she loved him, and that she couldn't stand to see him like this anymore. Well a friend and I got into a discussion as to what "love" is vs. settling/subjecting yourself to unhealthy relationships, etc. Well as we talked more and more about it and subjects relating to it, this song came into my mind.

Rachelle Ferrell and Will Downing...I mean, I could end the post right here. This song is very powerful, from the first note she sings, til the end when they are damn near professing their love for each other. She sings with such raw power in her voice, and of course, what better person to compliment her than the ultimate crooner himself. I don't think that this song would have been half as good if it wasn't those two singing it. Maybe I'm bias....but hey, shoot me if you think so. Lol

I think this is a perfect example of what love is. She says that even though she's not perfect, but she hopes that he accepts her in spite of her flaws. He returns by saying that she is the perfect person FOR HIM, which is what I think that is what true love is. Someone who loves you in spite of what you think may be a dealbreaker to that person in a relationship. And when you can accept that person for what they are, then nothing else matters in life.

Nothing has ever felt this good
Nothing has ever felt this right
Nothing so sweet
in my life.

Her: I really love you.
Him: I love my life with you
Both: We'll share a life together
I love you for now and forever.

Hey...one day, I'll be there. And when I do get there, nothing will ever be so sweet.

Is this the end?

2010-01-20T19:11:00.000-05:00

In light of all that's been happening lately, between the earthquakes in and around Haiti, all of the famous people passing away, and just all the random ish in between, people have been talking about "the last days are upon". Now I don't believe that mess, not at all....I'll believe it when Jesus DOES return, but all that hearsay did inspire today's post:

This came from "No Way Out" which was Diddy's first solo album (back when his name was Puff Daddy). Now the cd wasn't all that impressive to me, but it had a few good cuts from it such as this one and off course, All About the Benjamins. These two songs were probably the only two that got CONSTANT rotation after that cd came out.

Puffy made some great choices in collaborations by including Twista (who was definitely up and coming at that point), Carl Thomas (underrated artist IMO), and Ginuwine, who too was coming into his own. Twista introduced us to the game of speed rap (i.e. tryin to rewind the tape/cd over and over to try and comprehend the words that were coming out of his mouth lol), and of course, this was no different. Ginuwine was hittin the background vocals, cause back in the day, he actually had some hits on his hands. So once again, Puffy made a hit.

It didn't really hit mainstream, although I feel it should have been a single instead of some others (like Been Around the World...*smh* although the remix was hawt), but oftimes, the best songs are the ones that are not. Kudos to Puffy, Diddy, whatever you want to call him for this creation...you didn't have many of them, but the ones that you did have, brought the game just one more level up.

My Greatest Inspiration

2010-01-14T12:13:00.001-05:00

Of course, in wake of all that's going on, I had to dedicate today's post to the passing of one of music's greats: Mr. Teddy Pendergrass.

Now I know that this is one of his more known songs, but in all honesty, it's real though. When you feel this way about someone, you tend to want to let them know just how much they mean to you. I don't think that he could have gotten any more clear with his feelings than he did with this one. Teddy was not one to beat around the bush with what he wanted to convey, and the lyrics of his songs always got the point across plain and simple. BUT, he was always classy with his...even when he was tryin to get it in. lol.

Teddy P ranks among those great babymakers of the 70s and 80s (and quite honestly, could still be in today's times), such as Luther, Barry White, Isaac Hayes, etc. His music is timeless....unfortunately, those of today's generation won't know about this type of music because they can't appreciate it. Starting off in the group Harold Melvin and the Blue Notes, Teddy was able to break out on his own and create a name for himself that will never be forgotten. Here is another one of my favorites by Teddy in which he did a wonderful duet with Whitney Houston when she was just coming into her prime as a songstress extrordinaire: Hold Me in Your Arms.

I would add this to a "set the mood" type playlist any day of the week. Especially because I know the lady that I'm with would be able to appreciate this song just as much as I would. Below are some of my other favorites by Teddy solo and when he was with the Blue Notes.

If You Don't Know Me By Now - This should be a dedication song in the wake of his passing.

I'll Never See Heaven Again - That's a powerful love to make you say this about someone.

Love T.K.O. - Lovin so good, that it just knocks you out. How many of us have been THERE before? *raises hand*

Turn Off the Lights - Now you KNOW I couldn't forget this song. How many kids were conceived to our parents listening to this? lol

I Don't Love You Anymore - Hey. It is what it is....what a shame. lol

Feel the Fire - We gettin it in to this song. No doubt about it. I think Teddy and Stephanie got it in after recording this song.

There are plenty more that I could have posted, but I'll stop here. I'm sure you have some others that you love to see, so I'll let you post em.

R.I.P. Mr. Theodore "Teddy" Pendergrass...you graced us with music that can and never will be duplicated again.

The Sweetest Thing I've Ever Known

2010-01-12T16:47:00.001-05:00

Was like the kiss on a collar bone
the soft caress of happiness
the way you walk, your style of dress

Not really sure why I chose this song...it came across the iPod, and it made me fall back into the time of young innocent teenage love (not Alicia style..lol). I remember this was the Lauryn Hill that everyone fell in love with...right off of a bumpin LP with the Fugees back when she was L-Boogie (don't trip...the Score was off the chains), and right before she went bananas on everyone. This was the bump on the radio for quite a long time, and in all actuality, the Love Jones Soundtrack (where the song came from) was and still is one that gets rotation.

But during that time, Lauryn took the nation by storm with quite a few songs from her first solo joint, the Miseducation of Lauryn Hill.

When she released her first single from that cd, Doo-wop (That Thing), I was instantly hooked. True enough, it was a different sound for the time that it came out, but it was a refreshing sound. To me, she first came into her own when the Fugees did the remake of Killing Me Softly (although it seemed like a little bit of EVERYONE did that remake), so it was only a matter of time that she would drop her own joint; and when she did, she made MOVES.

Even though the entire Miseducation cd was bangin, there were a few cuts that stood out from the rest to me. In no particular order they are:

The Miseducation of Lauryn Hill - The title track was a slower, smooth, "Miss Independent" type of track...and the pianist on this track was off the chains.

Every Ghetto, Every City - Now even though some of you didn't grow up in the hood, I know you can relate to some of the stuff that she sings about.

Nothing Even Matters - One of the most banginest duets out there....she ripped this track, and D'Angelo held his own right along with her.

Can't Take My Eyes Off You - I'on know why, but I always wanted to go roller skating when I heard this song. lol

I Used to Love Him - Another bangin duet...but this time, the Queen of Hip-Hop, MJB, is producing the vocal talent.

I wish Lauryn would get out of her funk and produce another timeless classic like this one. I'm sure she could be one of the few to revitalize the game to where it used to be, and where it needs to be now. The world needs another woman who can sing, rap, combine the two, and make it flawless.

You must be used to me Spendin

2010-01-07T17:22:00.004-05:00

"on all that sweet winin' and dinin'
But I'm fuckin you tonite"

I actually got this idea reading another post from my homegirl Reecie (check her out yall..she got tastes like mine...you'll enjoy hers if you enjoy mine). In her post, she was discussing Ashanti, and I posted that my favorite song of hers is the Unfoolish remix (the one where Biggie spits his flow from "Fuckin You Tonite"). As I was writing that, I decided to put it on the iPod, which made me remember that this song is definitely my favorite from all of the bangers that he ever produced. (hey I know...but don't judge me dammit!)

One of many hits that featured someone else (this time being that musical genius mastermind R. Kelly), this song talks about straight get it in and out. He wasn't tryin to wife her up, he wasn't tryin to boo her up, and he definitely wasn't buy the bank out to get the draws. Fellas, I know we've all done this before. It's not that she's NOT worth it, but in the end, the reality is that we're just tryin to beat it and roll out. This is one of the original "aight Girl, you know what we here to do....now let's get on with the get on" type songs.

I like it when we truly parlayin
No love makin
Strictly back breakin
Cease know all his hoes go to my do'
Then they go to his floor
to fuck some more
So no, caviar, sharp bar, uh uh
Strictly sex that's sweaty and left over spaghetti
I know you used to slow CD's and Don P's
But tonight its eight tracks and six-packs while I hit that

Straight pimpin....and I bet that line worked on at LEAST one girl. lol. I guess after Biggie died, R decided to press on with the fame that this song got, and did a remake/remix of sorts with it. It wasn't as good as the original (but very few are IMO...another post for another time), but it still had some sort of bump to it, simply because he decided to keep the same style and beat to his version. Peep it out:

It's not atop my faves, but I'll give it one thumb up...simply because it's a tribute to the fallen BIG.

I just wanna be....successful

2010-01-04T06:45:00.005-05:00

OK...first of all, I want to say Happy New Year to all those who are reading this. This is a new year, new decade, alla that good jazz...and of course that means a new beginning of sorts. Many New Years resolutions will be made in the minds and out the mouths of people, but many people will (or maybe won't) be able to keep them. I know for sure, that the end result for these resolutions is to be successful; which is the reason why the first song of the new year for Music Hits the Spot is the above featured.

Now honestly, I wouldn't have expected a collabo between Trey Songz and Drake to be as hot as it is. But as always, a bangin beat would catch the attention when otherwise it would have gotten a real evil side eye when mentioned. Real talk, Drake brought a real flow to this song, at least IMHO. It gives me a feel of the old school music that once attracted me to hip-hop in the first place. I could see this on the soundtrack of one of the hood gangsta movies that we used to watch back in the day.

Now I'm not really the biggest Drake fan (or even Trey Songz for that matter :-P), but I'm a big fan of this duo on this song. Who's to say that they can't do it again...I don't believe it, but as for right now, I'm content with saying that this is up there on my top list of favorite collaborations. Drake brings a flow to this song that I believe is a personal testimony of sorts, which makes this song that much more likeable.

Yeah, I want things to go my way
But as of late, alot of shit been going sideways

Who's to say that you haven't had this type of day...or month...or even year. I know 2009 wasn't the best for me, and I'm praying that 2010 will bring more than what '09 did.

I want the money...money and the cars.
Cars and the clothes....I suppose
I just wanna be....I just wanna be
SUCCESSFUL

Maybe you don't want that same exact thing that Drizzy and Trey want...but in the end, don't we all want the same result: to be successful?

I know I do.

The End of Another Year

2009-12-31T06:54:00.001-05:00

Wellllll...it's the end of another year; the end of another decade; and time to start anew again. I'm really thankful for the chance to start this process over again (with a few changes here and there), and for the chance to see 2010. I know most people didn't have that chance afforded to them, and if they did, then they may not have been able to ring in the new year in as good as circumstances as I did.

Now this song is played throughout the entire country (maybe world), and I'm sure we've all heard it through and through (even though I'll admit...I don't know all of the words. lol). But there's a special meaning to this song, which is to forgive what happened in the past year, and leave it in the past. Which is true. I believe that some things should be left in the past, and not carried into the new year. A New year....new beginnings.

Should auld acquaintance be forgot,
And never brought to mind?
Should auld acquaintance be forgot,
And auld lang syne?

I'm not sure about you guys reading this, but I plan to ring in this year claiming it to be one of greatness and prosperity. I'm not gonna lay it out on the table just yet, but ya boy's got some BIG plans in store, and if the Big Guy upstairs says so, then it's gonna be on and poppin this year. I can't wait. It's gonna be a great time a'comin!

Now that I've got that out the way, here's the party anthem that's appropriate for ANY YEAR:

Celebrate Good times people......HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

How Good It Is?

2009-12-25T01:14:00.000-05:00

Yeah I know it's been a minute since I last posted, but there's been a good reason for this: #1 being that I'm in my hometown and there's no internet connection at the parental units crib. (yeah I'm thievin...but don't tell nobody! lol) But onto the subject at hand...and that's to discuss the music of the moment.

For some reason, Erykah Badu has been on my mind heavy lately. I'm not sure why, because I've never been the biggest E. fan, but there are some of her songs that I get into. To me, she's always been good for the songs where you can sit down with that special boo, pop open a bottle of your favorite wine, listen to her music, and just enjoy the company that you're in. I'm actually gonna discuss my top 4 today...startin with this song:

Now this has been, and will always be my favorite song. She poured her heart and soul into this song, singin about her jealousy for a past love and his current lady. She's caught up in the game, and she can't leave. I've been there before and it's not a nice sight. But then again, ain't nothin you can do about it but wipe up your feelings and move on to the next one.

Next up:

I think it was one of my Twitter friends who put this song in my head (and if it was then *shakin fist at you*), but in a way, I'm glad they did. I didn't realize how tight this song is...and I had to go back and revisit it. Now that I've done so, this song has bumped itself into the #2 spot of my faves of Erykah. Hailing from her second CD "Mama's Gun", this was one of many bangers from this CD. I think that Erykah's best work was done on her first 2 CDs. Honestly, she lost some of her touch after Mama's Gun. Don't get me wrong, the ones after MG was ok to good, but not on the levels of Baduizm and MG.

Now let's move to my favorite song from Baduizm:

Have you ever had that one person that you was really feelin, but have the strangest idea that you two won't ever make it to that level? This is what E was singin about in this song. Now she's involved in a relationship, but she's really diggin this other dude. So because she can't get with dude, she says that they'll be together...next lifetime. Hopefully it'll work out for them next time when they are butterflies. LOL

And last but not least, This wasn't on any one CD, yet a soundtrack, but it definitely makes it onto my list.

This was around the time that Erykah was messin with Common (and even though she had him all kinds of open....but I digress..lol). But this was a very fun song, and this is a good dance song in the club, or even in the privacy of your own home. All I'ma say is quit frontin like the one you with ain't the one that you lovin on day in and day out. E didn't.

Let it Snow!

2009-12-18T17:12:00.002-05:00

Today's post is dedicated to the weather...since here in DC, we're supposed to get at least a foot ~~and a half~~ of snow tomorrow. Seriously, I don't see that happening, BUT in lieu of it coming during the Christmas season (thank you Jesus), today will be about those holiday songs that bring out the Merry Ho Ho in us all.

This is one of quite a few songs that tend to excite the young lad in me. Honestly, music in general does this, but being as though I'm out on my own now, it's songs like this that remind me of my youth. I believe that Christmas is a time that you spend with your loved ones, and a lot of these songs, I've been hearing since childhood. You'd think that I would get tired of hearing em, but one can never get tired of things that bring joy to your life. (pause...)

With that being said, here are some of my favorites:

N'Sync - O Holy Night: Yeah I know....but these white boys KILT this version!

Donny Hathaway - This Christmas: God rest his soul. Nobody ever since has been able to do an edition of this song like he did.

The Temptations - Silent Night: Christmas just ain't Christmas without them wailing this song out over the radio waves.

Vanessa Williams - What Child is This: I love this version because it's very soulful and chill. But then again, when have you ever really known V. Dubb to be extra krunk.

Whitney Houston - Who Would Imagine a King: This lady has PLENTY o' Christmas hits I coulda said...but this one just stands out as it describes the REAL reason for Christmas.

Nat King Cole - The Christmas Song: This is one of my FAVORITE Christmas songs...everytime this song comes on, I'm goin IN!

Alvin and the Chipmunks - Hula Hoop: If anything is indicative of one's childhood, this would be it.....old school video and all.

Eartha Kitt - Santa Baby: One of the sexiest songs ever sang about Kris Kringle. LOL.

Listening to these songs always put me in a good mood. What are some of your favorites?

The NEW Robin Thicke

2009-12-15T12:58:00.010-05:00

The title to this post has a double meaning to it. Yes it is about the new Robin Thicke joint that just came out today, but it's also in meaning to a new person. A new Robin Thicke if you will. As you read on, you'll see what I mean by the double meaning.

Sex Therapy is pretty much not what I thought it would be, classic Robin if you will. A bunch of ballads and lounge songs that made RT known for what he is. I know that many people (myself included) thought that it would be like albums from the past: a bunch of kick back and relax, enjoy the breeze in the sunset, ride along in your car on a hot summer day type songs. But Robin had another thought in mind for all of his fans.

This is where the new Robin comes into play. Sure enough, he's done duets with rappers (one of my favorites being Shooter w/ Weezy), but even in those, he's always stayed true to his form....a singer. Never has he tried to take on the role of the person that he's doing the song with. Well I guess this is a new era...a new decade....a new Robin. Cause on the first half of the cd, that's all it is...the hip hop, "rappin" Robin. IMO it's a different look on him, but given some more practice, one that the world could (and would) get used to. Now I will admit, I think he ran into some writers' block on those songs (see Shakin It 4 Daddy, and Meiplè), but they introduce a more upbeat, fun Robin w/ looks from Hov, Nicki Minaj, and the Doggfather himself, Snoop. Even Kid Cudi makes a hot track with Robin in Elevatas.

Now that's not to say that classic Robin doesn't come out...cause on the last half of the cd, that's when true to form, what we're used to Robin shines through. "Jus Right" is a personal favorite from this part of the cd, and even "Mona Lisa" does it for me. Let's not forget the song that put this CD on the map in the first place: Sex Therapy. That song just drips all kinds of sex from the first intro to the end. Honestly, it's a look that Robin should never COMPLETELY stray away from, cause it's what created who he is, and it'll continue to bring him success in life.

But all in all, even though it seems like 2 separate cds from the first half to the second half, I still think it's a pretty good cd in all. I'd give it a B+, simply because he still needs to work at the "new" Robin more before I can give him an A on that type of effort. But as of right now, I like it, and I give it my stamp of approval.

Good job Robin!

We Must be in Love

2009-12-11T17:02:00.007-05:00

This post is actually dedicated to one of my B.L.A.C.K. brothers who is gettin married this weekend (congrats M. Moore...do it big homie!). As he and I had a conversation about the whole marriage deal, it made me think, which songs would define my wedding? Now I know that there are PLENTY o songs out there that could convert as wedding songs, but I believe that wedding music should be specific to the couple that's getting married.

Now I know that I'd have to compromise some things, because my tastes aren't going to always directly line up with my wife's; but there are some songs that are MUSTS in my wedding. Now everything is not going to be all slow dances, and tearjerkers. But these songs are those that I would recommend in ANY wedding (now the reception..thats' a whole different post right there.

In my opinion, music for the wedding should fit the occasion at hand. A serious moment where you and your bride (or groom) to be are about to join as one under the eyes of God. Me personally, I don't think that coming down the aisle to some uptempo beat (insert any of the millions on deck) should be incorporated into your ceremony. You may get a few side eyes from the guests, and definitely the evil eye from the mothers. lol. Not a good way to start off relations with your new in-laws. LOL

But below are some songs that I would love to have in my wedding (if I ever have one...I'm still prayin on that one. lol)

Boyz II Men - I Do: This song is definitely a wedding song. I mean, if you listen to the lyrics, they pretty much give you the vows to say. LOL

Kenny Lattimore - For You: Classic wedding song. If you really love this woman, then this song will show everyone through song.

Jaheim - Forever: A nice ghetto swing to it...but still appropriate for all age limits.

Intro - Ribbon in the Sky: Now I know folx will not feel me on this one, but guess what, I think that Intro's version was better than Stevie's. *shrugs*

Beyoncè & Luther - The Closer I Get to You: Now I tried to get away from Luther, since we all know that the majority of his slow ballads were wedding/baby makers lmao, but hey, we gotta give the man props when props are due.

Brian McKnight - Never Felt This Way: This here...coupled with a beautiful bride, will have not a DRY EYE in the building if played while she's walking down the aisle. Alicia Keys did a wonderful version of this song as well, but only as an interlude.

and even this one:

will work out what you want to say to her, especially if you can't figure out the right words for her. Just listen to Jesse....he can give you some pointers (as long as you don't plaigarize his song).

The way you walk
the way you talk
the way you say my name, your smile
The way you move,
the way you soothe me
the way you sing softly through the night
Every morning you rise
and open your eyes
I just wanna be with you baby
I just wanna be yours
From this day forth.

Do You Know What Today Is?

2009-12-11T10:44:00.005-05:00

It's our Anniversary.....made for you and me

This post is dedicated to those dudes that I like to think created what we now know as the "Neo-Soul movement". From back in the 80's these three guys known as Tony! Toni! Tonè! set out the movement of songs that could make you bump your head, or just feel it in the setting of a dimly lit room with the one you love (or was crushin..lol). The song posted above was one of my favorites for a multitude of reasons...1 of em being that the album that it was listed on, was the first CD I had owned...so you know it got madd play from me. But the lyrics let you know that he was excited that it was another year (or month or whatever) for them, and he was glad to be able to experience it with her.

The pleasure's all mine, we have seen good times
It's our Anniversary
Victoria won't be no secret at the end of the day
It's our anniversary
A small cup of tea
and YOU can have me
it's our anniversary

Tony! Toni! Toneè! (or as I call them, the 3Ts) had a number of hits spanning over about 10 years or so, and every time they released a new album, it always had a different style to it, but the best part about it, is that all the styles had a unique yet similar look to them. It was like you'd expect the 3Ts to fit into each style...they never tried to be something that they couldn't be.

Although they had a bunch of hits between the 3 of them, here are some of my favorites right here:

Slow Wine: Another banger from the Sons of Soul CD

Little Walter: One of their early hits...talkin about the ultimate horrid roommate situation. And Sinbad as the roommate was hilarious.

Whatever You Want: This is probably my favorite song by them.

It Never Rains in Southern California: Who lied to them?! LOL

Thinking of You: Using that old Al Green sample, but they brought a 90s feel to it.

Ask of You: Yeah I know that this was Raphael by himself, but he was still a member of the group at that time!

Just Me and You: From the Boyz in the Hood Soundtrack...definitely a banger.

Feels Good: Jams from the early 90s.

House Party (I Don't Know What You Come to Do): Don't act like yall ain't wanna be up in the Pajama Jammy Jam watchin that movie! LOL

1 and 2 and 3 and 4

2009-12-09T13:13:00.005-05:00

Get them sit ups right and
Tuck your tummy tight and
Do your crunches like this...

Today's post is dedicated to those who like the workout plan...both the Jane Fonda and the Kanye style. LOL. I worked out this morning, and as I sit here feeling the effects of said workout already (lol), I thought I'd post somethin a lil light and airy in the wake of all that's goin bad. This is dedicated to those who like to do that "workout plan":

This song was one of my instant favorites from "College Dropout", which wasn't hard to do since CD was my favorite 'Ye album. Now I did one from Late Registration as well (see here), so it was only right that I had to do CD some justice too. This was one of those songs from CD that broke the serious tones that 'Ye produced on other tracks such as "Through the Wire", "All Falls Down", and "Spaceship" (which by the way was another instant favorite as well).

I know we all laughed when listening to this song, especially the testimonies of the breezies who "benefitted" from the workout plan. I know my favorite was Ellie Mae from Mobile, AL, who was able to pull a double wide and ride a plane. *dead* I just love this song because it's light and fun, and brings a good laugh to everyone's demeanor. I mean, we all need that sometime. Now I'm waitin on some breezy to tell me this:

Thanks to Kanye's workout plan
I'm the envy of all my friends
See I pulled me a baller man
And I ain't gotta work at the mall again.

*dead*

Dirty Diana

2009-12-07T20:10:00.003-05:00

Tonight's post is goin out to the one who was one of very few people who EARNED his "King" title. This man seemed to get more fans each and every decade, and probably the ONLY person who got more fans once he passed away. I'm not sure how he did it, but then again, Mike was always the man. This post is about one of my favorite songs by Michael Jackson: Dirty Diana.

This song always gets me krunk whenever I play it. The fact that Mike was so serious about not gettin with this girl who smashed all the celebrity homies made it that much more believing. I mean, the fact that he KNEW she smashed the homies, and still beat it....trips me out. But I'm jus sayin...sometimes it beez like dat. We fall prey, even though we know we ain't sposed to.

But this beat tho....goes HARD. The guitar is the best part about this song. It is matchin the emotion that MJ is puttin into this beat for beat, note for note. But clearly MJ takes it home with these words:

Diana walked up to me
she said "I'm all yours tonite"
and then I ran to the phone
sayin "Baby I'm alright,
But unlock the door,
cus I forgot the key"
She said "he's not comin back
because he's sleepin WIT ME!"

Dirty Diana.....she was a bad broad; nobody could resist her....not even MJ.

We Major

2009-12-03T14:57:00.004-05:00

Who remembers when Kanye was known for his flow rather than his eff ups? For showin his skills lyrically as opposed to showin his ass on stage? For gettin people not to sip the kool-aid instead of him sippin the henn? I know I do. Ever since he dropped "Through the Wire" as his first single from "College Dropout", Kanye always had a fan in D. Mitch. To this day, I still bump that CD like it fell off the truck yesterday. But this post isn't about any song off of that CD, but the one after that "Late Registration".

This was Kanye's sophomore album, and to be honest, this CD went as hard as College Dropout did. There will always be a battle against true hip-hop heads as to which CD was better...me personally, I always say that College Dropout was bangin on Late Registration, but I can see why others would say the converse is true. He had madd hits (and skits) on both albums, and they went tit for tat, track for track. But one thing that me and others alike will all agree on, is that "We Major" is definitely one of the best tracks from the 2nd joint.

Coupled with the imaginative and lyrical genius of Prince Nasir, this easily is one that will be stored in the archives for generations to come to enjoy. This is one of those tracks that one can just put in the ride, let it play, and everyone who's listening can sit back and enjoy. Kanye gets 5 stars for this track, and if you know me, then I don't say that about many songs.

Now...if we could just get THAT Kanye back on the scene, the world would start to ease back toward a happy medium.

Bug a Boos

2009-12-02T13:50:00.006-05:00

Have you ever had that one person, that you told to leave you be (no matter why the reason), but they can't seem to get it out of their heads that you don't want to be bothered? I know that Dave Hollister did, and he told the world in his first single dropped as a solo artist "My Favorite Girl"

Dave had just left the group Blackstreet to pursue his own career as a solo artist. He dropped his first CD named "Ghetto Hymns", and he definitely established himself with this track.

The girl he's singin about can't get him off her mind. The problem is that he's moved on, and that he's not tryin to deal with her anymore. The even bigger problem is that she's not letting him go anywhere, even when he is tryin his damnest to get away. She shows her serious stalker side in these words:

"Leave me alone....
callin me and hangin up cus wife is home
How'd you get my number in the first place?
The shit ain't even listed under my name!"

I seriously believe Dave was singin about someone that was stalkin him for real in this song. And if he ain't...then someone who is currently goin through is feelin him. But then again, that entire CD was full of real life situations and themes that those from the hood (and otherwise) could deal with. Even when you tell her this, if she don't get it through her head then you might have "a thin line between love and hate" on your hands...lol

You callin me and ya tellin
cause you wantin me
and you needin me
cause you lonely
and you can't see
how I can be
with another B-I-T-C-H
and that she could never be
my wifey
Why can't you see
it wasn't meant for
you and me to be?

Yikes!

Thankful Thoughts

2009-11-25T10:43:00.006-05:00

One thing that most people, myself included, are thankful for, is the fact that you have someone that loves you. Whether it be family or friends, it's always a great feeling to know that someone will have your back unconditionally. And when you have both, there's nothing better.

But there is one thing that can enhance that feeling sevenfold (and yes, I said seven..don't judge me..lol). That's the love of a significant other. One who can bring out feelings in you that you would otherwise have bottled up in a deep dark corner of your soul, never to be released...and to know that they have those same feelings for you, only puts you higher in the realm of happy.

This is what Lalah Hathaway was singin about in her remake of Luther Vandross's hit "Forever, For Always, For Love". She's reminiscing about a past love, and this man made her feel like the top of the world was her stomping grounds. Unfortunately, they broke up, and she wishes that she could do it all again...but this time, righting what illed their first time. I know that we've all had those moments where we longed for the days of exes gone past. She definitely put all of her father's intensity into her version, making me believe that she was feelin what her father felt when he performed it.

The question of the moment is this: would it work this time around? I think that it could...especially if you take what went wrong in the first go around, and work on that, while keeping the good things intact. Once you get that equation up and running safely, there's no way why you and the S.O. shouldn't be in love

"Forever
For Always
For Love"

The Hidden Gem

2009-11-24T14:27:00.005-05:00

Understand I can never be your man
Though I can understand that you ready for a family
On the other hand, I love to see your ass
But you contaminated so you need to find a plan B

OK...so many people know, I wasn't the biggest fan of Wale's last CD: Attention Deficit (which will be another post in itself), but I will admit, that it had some bangers on it. Unfortunately, my favorite song on the cd, was the one that never made it TO the CD. That's right, this cut that's being featured today is Beast, the track that was in the running toward becoming a track on Attention Deficit, but for whatever reason, Wale decided to cut it from the CD.

Beast was produced by 9th Wonder, and I'm not sure what it was that caused him not to include this one, but I swear, this was one of the best tracks produced for that album. The beat had you flowin before you realized it, and Wale was droppin that real truth with the lyrics. Not to say that he didn't do that with other tracks that actually made the cut, but I'm jus sayin...there was always somethin that kept me from feelin those like I'm feelin this one (with the exception of maybe 2-3).

All in all, I feel like this cut woulda brought the grade of A.D. up. This is one of those cuts that you can put in the ride, let the windows down, and just let it bump while you roll down the street. Being where I am right now, I'm sure everyone would be bumpin it right along with it. Wale brought it with this cut. I honestly believe that he redeemed himself...although he shot himself back in the foot for not including this on the CD.

I say check this out, and Wale, if you readin this, don't be leavin off the dope tracks from the next CD!

Spiritual Uplift

2009-11-23T13:21:00.004-05:00

For the many times I've fallen,
yet YOU forgave me...
thank you...Lord I thank you
For unmerited favor,
and your brand new mercies
thank you...how I thank you

In the spirit of Thanksgiving, you always have to have a reason to be thankful for. Whether it be because you're alive; it could be for you having a family to go to; or just not succumbing to whatever was ailing you at that point in your life. I believe that the song above will cover all of that. Right now, no matter what you're going through in your life, there is always a spiritual song, that will help to uplift you.

Now those of you reading this blog, know that I'm a man of religion. And with that being said, I realized that I haven't made a religious post yet, and I wanted to fix that error. Especially since these songs that I'm about to list really get me through some hard times.

Now here is where I'm about to get personal for a second. This hasn't been a good year for me or my family, and some of you know this, but thanks to these songs, my faith hasn't fallen completely by the wayside. I know that nobody's life will be perfect, and that's including mine, but even with knowing that, I felt like Satan was really tryin to beat me down. But hey, with music like this, it's hard NOT to believe that one day, you will see the rainbow past the rain.

Marvin Sapp: Perfect Peace - When it all just seems to come at you...

Kirk Franklin: Brokenhearted - For when you're feeling down.

Donald Lawrence: Encourage Yourself - A reason why you shouldn't give up...and the best encouragement should come from yourself.

Kurt Carr: God Blocked It - If it seems like nobody cares, there's always ONE.

Greg O'Quin: I Told the Storm - Claim it moved in the Name.

Smokie Norful: Still Say Thank You - In spite of it all, you still have a reason

Dewayne Woods: Let Go, Let God - You can't do it alone....trust me, I've tried that route.

Byron Cage: Broken but Healed - You may be down, but you're not out.

Shekinah Glory Ministry: Yes - The only answer when God asks you a question.

This is it WHAT?

2009-11-19T17:00:00.003-05:00

This came up on my iPod while listening to my chill playlist, and I HAD to blog about this one. I know all of my old head hip hop lovers would appreciate this one. Especially if you listened to music during the early to mid 90s.

This is the epitomy of chill music. You can just pop this in the ride, let the windows down on a nice sunny day, and just bounce your head as you riding down the street. The youngens of today wouldn't know nothin about this one...cause this is CLASSIC hip hop right here. Very few groups of today's times could eff with this one...

Even today, this song can be played around the right group and folks still get hype like it came out last night. I know I will. Why: cause this gave us hopes of gettin rich and ballin out the club like this right here:

I play the deef (What?!)
Sensations at the Monte Barbie screamin (Cheeba!)
For fillin pleasures at my castles (Blow the smoke out!)
The boss of Vegas substitutes when the Dutch is gone

No matter what people say and what artists put out, it's music like this that will never grow old. I know this will always get special rotation no matter how old I get....why, cause this is REAL hip-hop.

This is it (What?!)
Luchini pourin' from the sky
Lets get rich (What?!)

I've Got a Real Thing...

2009-11-19T07:04:00.003-05:00

Here by my side....someone who needs me..holdin me tight.

Very powerful words by the (then) unknown singer who would capture our hearts with her very first single from an album that wasn't even hers. To this day, not many can say truthfully that she didn't make her mark with this song. Not to mention, it didn't hurt that this track was done by the great Quincy Jones. I mean, seriously, there aren't many tracks that one can say that Q did that wasn't bangers.

"You Put a Move on My Heart" (from the Q's Jook Joint compilation) is one of those songs that you play when you're in the deepest of love with someone (or a strong like even..lol). If ya wanna tell someone how you feel, just drop this track on em. I bet you'll get ya point across.

"And these special feelings
won't ever fade
Cause I knew from the start....

YOU put a move on my.....heart"

Bad Habits

2009-11-13T12:48:00.010-05:00

Have you ever had a jones for someone, someone that you knew you probably shouldn't or shouldn't have had no types of feelings for. Someone that you should leave the hell alone, but they are like your bad habit?

I think Maxwell spoke a for real truth in this song.

He speaks about someone that he knows is real wrong for him, especially because he's in a relationship at the time. From the beginning of the song, he recognizes that he's dead wrong for gettin the key from ole chick and then using it. But hey, we've all had those types of moments.

This is definitely one of those songs, that I'd recommend gettin play on a rainy night when you tryna get it in. Even if you just wanna play the entire CD (which by the way I do recommend for a good listen....the boy ain't lost his touch!), he sets off the mood right by startin the CD with this song. Very soulful, not too slutty (unless you watchin the video..then that's a Skinemax show lol), and with the right person, you gone get some draws dropped.

I know we done all been there before, hell, I been there recently, but you know what, sometimes, you just can't help yaself. I think Maxwell put it best when he said:

You're my bad habit baby you're my
You're taking my soul down to the letter O
Can't escape the way you got me locked out baby
I gotta break from you, break from you, break from you.

It was that serious....he had to get away 3 times. Don't tell me you ain't been there before.

Battle of the Vocals

2009-11-12T14:50:00.007-05:00

Now this is gonna be something different. For many years now, the battle has been who did it better. The song is: "Knocks Me Off My Feet". The three contestants:

Stevie Wonder:

Donell Jones:

and last but not least

Luther Vandross:

Me personally...I always said that Donell did it better. True enough, there were VERY few songs from the Great Blind One himself that people could cover, and cover well, but I kid you not, Donell not only did this song justice, but dammit, he put all kinds of his own into it. I know people are gonna try to tar and feather me, and burn me in the town square for this one, but hey, it's my thoughts, and you can voice your own. LOL

So holla if ya hear me....who you think did it better?

Straight Sympin

2009-11-11T16:10:00.004-05:00

I know that whenever you think of hip-hop music, you don't think about those types of songs where you see folks "sprung", nose "wide open", and the such. I really don't think that I ever thought I'd hear about some dude who decided that this girl was the one who could have him trippin over his own two feet, and much less write about it. But you know what though, it's music like this that is the jam at times when you feelin like this, but you don't wanna admit it to your boys. Songs like this one:

LL Cool J - I Need Love
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LL wrote the original sympin song. I mean, seriously she musta had that "good good" because one minute he talkin bout he bad and such, then this nigga talkin

When I'm alone in my room
Sometimes I stare at the wall,
and in the back of my mind
I hear my conscious call
tellin me I need a girl
who's as sweet as a dove
for the first time in my life
I see I need love

OK....how does THAT work? Did she put it on this nigga somethin proper like? LOL. I know yall ladies know how to work it and put it down in the bedroom (well some of yall...lol), but dayum, it must be serious for him to put it out there like that.

Now T.I. took it to another level with Freak Though. Not only did he put it out there that he wanted to be with this girl, but apparently, she's the neighborhood hoe, and he tryin turn a hoe into a housewife (although he say he don't...but he lyin tho. lol)

TI - Freak Though - WITH LYRICS! @ Yahoo! Video

Seriously though, this nigga done lost his mind. I mean really, all your boys and your fam done ran through her and you still tryin to make her wifey? Yeah...uh...not quite. But hey, you like it, I'll tolerate it. I just hope that I don't fall into THAT gap. lol

Then if that ain't bad enough, after he done wifed up the girl, you then tell her that she can buy the bank out and "have whatever she like".

Like for real doe...I'm outta suggestions at this point. Some good friends and I had this phrase called "Tampabayin", where she could do anything she wanted to and get away with it. It sounds like T.I. is a member of this club, cause he believe "it ain't trickin if you got it." I call shenanigans on that line. LOL

Last but not least, we gots this one here:

Now she really know he sprung...cause he done told her she the best he EVER had. I mean seriously, even if she is, do you tell her that? Does that mean that you whipped from head to toe? That she can use you for her personal carpet? LOL. I know the women reading this are gonna have issues with that, but honestly, I think so. There are ways to show her that you feelin her without losing your manhood.

I hope that these negroes get it together for the men...we lookin real simp-lified right now. LOL

The Last Time

2009-11-10T18:05:00.007-05:00

I know it's been a minute since I last posted, but you know the musical mind never stops spinnin, so it's gonna be quite a few posts coming through the pipes. So be ready kids.

Today's post is inspired by a trending topic on Twitter: best feeling. Actually it's both best and worst, but I like to not think about the worst feeling, cause Lord knows I've been through a few of those lately, so I'm writing about the best feeling. As I was participating in the trending topic, this song popped into my mind, simply because the majority of my tweets were about romantic things involving someone of the opposite sex (who shall remain nameless, but I'm sure is reading this too).

How many folks have ever hoped that the person that you're currently dating would be "it"? The last one. The last time for just about everything involved in dating. I think that Eric Benet hit the nail on the head on this one.

"Now don't hold back, just let me know
Could I be moving much too fast, or way too slow.
Cause all of my life, I've waited for this day,
To find that once in a lifetime,
this is it, I'll never be the same.
You'll never know, what it's taken me to say these words,
and now that I've said them, they could never be enough.
As far as I can see, there's only you, and only me.
This is the LAST TIME, I'll fall in love"

These are some really deep words right here, and said to the right person, I'm sure they would make all the world in your relationship. I dunno that I can say that right now, but I know that when I do, it's a wrap for the kid. I just hope that will be sooner than later. There are quite a few songs that could describe these feelings just the same, but to be honest, I'm sure we're all looking for "The Last Time".

Take It Off

2009-10-30T13:46:00.007-04:00

As I muddled through the many various topics I could write about, I thought about something. I figured, how many of you women out here reading this post have thought about songs that you could "perform" to? Don't front, don't act like you've never thought about dancing for your boo, in the privacy of your (or his, or the hotel) room. It's cool...I ain't mad about it. I enjoy a good private dance too...9 times outta 10, it's gonna lead to somethin that will benefit you in the end.

Now coming up with this list was pretty easy actually. The first song that popped into my head was the below: I mean, seriously, listening to this song, you already got instructions. LOL

Pimp C just tells you off bat:

"Take it off bitch, bend over lemme see
if you lookin for a trill type nigga lemme be it."

And if you do that right, you bound to get yours in before you know it. But don't just get up there and think that because you got this song on, and somethin real scandalous, that we gone up and start bangin. (Well, we will, but you know..lol). Make sure you, "work somethin, twerk somethin".

And for the fellas, don't get psychotic and start humpin as soon as she start dancin. Let her make her way over to ya. It'll be worth the wait. If you lookin for some other suggestions to get her outta her shell and onto a make shift pole in the crib, look down below (not in ya pants, but at the list...lol):

50 Cent - Ayo Technology: Here's a bangin visual for you ladies if you want some pointers on how to work a pole. LOL

Jeremih - Birthday Sex: A great way to show the man you love, just how MUCH you love him on his birthday.

The Dream - Lemme See The Booty: Here is for you lap dancing gurls. I know you know what I'm talkin about. Or maybe you wanna do more than dance in that lap.

Crime Mob - Rock Yo Hips: If you one of those ladies that like to gyrate outta control, here is the theme song for you. Maybe this should be your starter song to get ya clothes off.

Ludacris - Splash Waterfalls I suggest this be your ending song right before you relax and let it gooooooooooo! SAY IT!

Lil Wayne feat Bobby V. - Mrs. Officer: Take notes ladies....ideas for after you go in for the kill.

I know this is different from the norm, but I am an equal opportunist, and the strippers should get their just do. We can't leave them out, cause they have provided us men with quality hours spent in shake junts, bachelor parties, and the like. Don't be afraid to show your man how you can work it behind closed doors....after all, we love a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets. YUUU-WEH!!!!

R.I.P. Baby Girl

2009-10-24T16:04:00.006-04:00

As I was listening to my Pandora station, tryin to get a topic for my new post, this song came on, and I instantly had an epiphany (not Chrisette Michele style..lol)

This was one of the many Aaliyah songs that I loved, simply because even though Aaliyah wasn't the greatest artist vocally, but she brought her own Detroit style to the table. (not to mention, she looks DAYUM good in a 2 split skirt). Even though her beginnings started off with that scandalous pedophilic musical mastermind R'rah Kelly, she eventually bloomed into her own, and realized that the girly look was gonna take her farther in the business than the "thug misses" look ever would. (and I agree...leave that to Da Brat..lol).

Aaliyah's life was taken way before her time shoulda been gone, but honestly I guess that's not really my decision to make. She gave us 3 good to great albums before her untimely passing, but if given the chance, I bet that she had a lot more to offer the world. Aaliyah paved the way for such folks like Ciara and Teyana Taylor...but I betcha that if she was still alive, that she woulda been blowin them to pieces. Some of my favorites by the Baby Girl herself are listed below (and low key, I still bump some of them to this day. lol)

Back and Forth- The first single from her first CD "Age Ain't Nothin But a Number". This was the song that introduced us to the female protege of R'rah.

Street Thing- This wasn't a mainstream hit, but it was a banger. Loved the feeling she put into it.

Age Ain't Nothin But a Number- The title track from her 1st cd that let folks know that even though she may be young, she still know how to get down.

One in a Million- A re-used title with a bangin beat and different words. The title track from her second CD: this was the beginning of a Timbo era.

If Your Girl Only Knew- The first single released from the second CD. Probably was the theme song for all those fly girls back in the day. LOL

We Need a Resolution- First track from her self-titled and last CD. She really came wit it. Gotta love the Timbo beat.

I Care 4 U- Love the sincerity in this video. She vows to make things all better after a broken relationship. Fellas, how many of us are lookin for someone like that?

I Don't Wanna Be- From the Romeo Must Die Soundtrack....acting was pretty bad, but the song knocks tho!

There were plenty of others that could and should be mentioned here, but if I listed all of the songs that banged throughout her career, we'd be here all day. I know that you guys got more to list, but these are the ones that stood out to me. The world is missing an angel, but she's in Heaven right now performing for those people up there now.

R.I.P. Aaliyah

Who Does It Better? (pt 2)

2009-10-24T12:10:00.008-04:00

This is the second part of the two part series on who did it better in the 90s, cause we all know that music today ain't what it used to be back then. Today's post is gonna be about the guy groups that showed up and showed out during the times when music really inspired our hearts and heads during our growin up days.

This was a bit harder to choose, because during the 90s, there was more of an influx of guy groups as opposed to girl groups. I'm not sure if it was in the water or somethin, but it seems that folks decided that they wanted to up and form a singing group. There were plenty of groups to choose from, but the ones that I'm choosing were some of my favorites from back in the day, aaaannnnnnnnnd, this is my blog, so chew on that! lol. But as always, feel free to comment on some of your own.

First up at bat: we're gonna start off with that 4 guy group from Philly: Boyz II Men. These guys were pretty much a spinoff of Bell Biv Devoe (who in turn was a spinoff of New Edition...lol). They had a fresh sound to them different from many of the groups that came out in the early 90s, and being that they were part of the "East Coast Family" (which comprised of them, Another Bad Creation, and BBD...how, I'm not sure how that happened..lol), they had a hit. Their first hit was probably their best known fast song Motownphilly:

After that, it was all slow songs for them. They romanced you with On Bended Knee and I'll Make Love to You, but showed you they had a bad side with Uhh Ahh. I'm sure that still gets play with the older heads...especially the
remix.

Next we're gonna move from Philly to Baltimore: home of the Ravens, the Wire, and Dru Hill. They crept up slowly on the R&B tip, but when people got wind of their self-titled first CD, it was/still a banger to this day. A few of their bangers were In My Bed, April Showers, All Alone, and These Are the Times....but nothing, and I mean NOTHING that they put out can ever top this one:

I remember this one being played at parties, at the crib, in the car driving down the street...you never found ONE person who said they didn't like this song!

Now we gotta take it to K-Ci, JoJo, DeVante, and Mr. Dalvin...otherwise known as Jodeci. Not only did they bring out some bangin hits, but they also started trends as well (how many folks remember the Jodeci boots...I never had any, but I know PLENTY o folks that did, lol). Either way, I could go on and on about their music, because they always produced a quality CD. From their very first CD entitled "Forever My Lady", they always gave you nice and mushy, with a side of nasty. One of my favorites from them was this song right here:

They were talkin about she was the "natural high" and that they didn't wanna let go of her. I think that may have been where Raheem got his idea for "Love Drug". *Kanye shrug*. Some other bangers that Jodeci put out there was Forever My Lady, Come and Talk to Me, I'm Still Waiting, and Love U 4 Life.

And to wrap it up, since part 1 ended with the Bad Girls of the Bad Boys Family, it's only fitting that I end this post with their counterparts: 112. 112 definitely came out the box rockin with their self-titled CD producing such hits like Cupid and Only You. But they had those that slipped through the cracks like Pleasure and Pain, and Now That We're Done. Their next LP, Room 112, showed us that they had grown up a little bit with Anywhere

and Love You Like I Did. But in all honesty, Part III was probably their best one (with the 1st one in a CLOSE second), because I felt that you could listen to this one from beginning to end. With that smooth kick from Q, Mike, Slim, Daron, then onto Player, and ending it with Sweet Love...they def brought it!

So now we have it, we have the Girls vs. the Guys....who you think did it better?

WTF? You Mean that's ALL?!

2009-10-21T13:47:00.005-04:00

OK...I'm sittin here listenin to music on the iPod and it hit me as to what I want to post about today. In a previous post Another Level, I mentioned about "My Paradise" from Blackstreet's second album, Another Level. The song is hella tight...and I wish that it wasn't just an interlude, but you gotta take it for what it is.

Now I know we all have songs that we bump from different cds that as soon as you start to get all the way into it, it cuts off. This isht irritates the snot outta me because I know I feel like they shoulda put a little more time into the track and made it more than just 2 mins or a minute and a half. It irritates me the most when I'm sangin along to the track, and just as you all into it, the joint is DUN!

But you know what though, I'm thinkin that it took them quite some time to put that together, and to make greatness out of the short amount of time the song is playing, so for that, I can't knock their hustle. But dammit, I need some more time outta these joints besides the 4 seconds that they give you in between the intro music and it fading to the next song. Sometimes, they just do it for a little humor in the cd. I enjoy those too...

I'm sure yall can feel me on this one right? But I guess the interlude will never fade away because most times it can be a great album filler. Here are some great interludes from over the years:

112 - Q, Mike Slim, Daron: from their Part III CD. One of the best in the game. OneTweezy did it with this one.

Dr. Dre - $20 Sack Pyramid This was one of the most ignant interludes to date, but it STILL is off the chains!

Alicia Keys - Never Felt This Way A great rendition of the original by Brian McKnight, but I'm not sure as to why she cut the song in half. lol

TLC - Sexy Interlude This one had me crackin up the first time I heard it. Maybe it was cus I was 13 at the time. LOL

What We Gone Do is take you back, way back, back into Time!

2009-10-20T04:50:00.007-04:00

Today's post is gonna be dedicated to a group that got their start from the mind of a musical genius: Teddy Riley. They wowed us with their first self titled cd, and with the modification of the group, they took us to "Another Level". This is about Blackstreet:

This is and always will be one of the greats that they were known for from that cd. "Don't Leave" was hot, because not only did it have a sick beat to it, but the way that Chauncey and em was sangin that track, you'da thought that the girl was leaving the sound booth never to return again. This was definitely one of those songs that you could have on repeat, because you knew that if you was feelin it, then you wanted to hear it again.

Blackstreet definitely blessed our ears with some great hits...spanning over 4 different CDs. At times, they were thought to be a modern day Guy (due to Teddy Riley being the brainiac behind the entire operation). Their first cd was a banger to me, but in all actuality, I was stuck on Another Level. It was one of those that got madd rotation in the car, on the cd player on the way to school, at the crib; anywhere. Matter fact, it still gets rotation to this day. The list below are a few of my favorites from this group from all 4 cds and a hawt remix as well.

No Diggety: A collabo between Teddy Riley and Dr. Dre. Can't go wrong with that combination. Not to mention, Queen Pen was at the height of her 15 mins of fame at that point too.

My Paradise: One of the best interludes ever IMO. I think this shoulda been a full song. Hmmm..thoughts for another post.

Before I Let You Go: One of the bangers of the first CD. Real romantic and stuff. Definitely good for a "get int the mood" cd.

Deep: Here is their real nasty side. They brought it real hard core with this one.

I Get So Lonely (remix): Even though this was a Janet song, they still brought another flavor to it.

Booti Call: Taken from the old school music, but with an up to date 90's new jack swing. I'm sure all folks was bumpin this.

I think that Blackstreet was one of those groups from the 90s that made their impact on R&B as a whole...but you know they had great beginnings given that Teddy Riley had already made his step into the music world with Guy. So it was almost a given that they were gonna have some sort of success.

Holler If Ya Hear Me!

2009-10-15T06:55:00.007-04:00

This morning's post is gonna be dedicated to one of the more known rappers. Mr. Tupac Amaru Shakur. Pac def had a sick flow wit it...some think that he was a bit overrated with it, but IMO, he didn't have a lot of bells and whistles to his flow. He just told it how it was. It's a shame that he had to die the way he did. I think that he was one of those who could have made his legacy greater than what it was.

No More Pain, from the All Eyez on Me release, was one of those tracks that had the lyrics to keep you intrigued in it, but also had a sick beat with it...from the creative brain of Mr. Devonte Swing (from Jodeci). Wasn't too fast, but still gave you the chance to nod your head while bumpin in the whip. He had just joined wit Dr. Dre at Death Row, and now he was a member of the "West Siiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiide!"

What's all you niggaz das jealous
Pull your gun out and blast
I tell them niggas to open fire
I murder dat ass and disappear before the cops come runnin
My glock spittin rounds niggas fallin down clutchin their stomachs
It's WEST SIDE Death Row
Thug niggaz on the rise
Bustas shot me 5 times
REAL niggas don't die

If you think about it...he just gave a shout out (sort of) to Biggie and his crew and the beef that's goin on at the time between Biggie and Pac. I think besides the gang wars, that was the biggest most publicized beef ever. But eh...

Brenda's Got a Baby: I know we all remember this track. Made the country aware of teen pregnancy.

Outlaw: Not a highly publicized song, but it still got madd play in the whip when Me Against the World came out.

Dear Mama: How many of you had this as the ringtone for your Moms on your cell phone at some point? lol

Hail Mary: From the last bangin Pac CD Makaveli...after that, it all went downhill

I Get Around: The first "playeristic" song...back when Pac was still kickin it with the Digital Underground. LOL

Hit Em Up: This was Pac's rebuttal to Biggie's attack at him. He came real raw and uncut with it. Personally, I think Pac took it with this one.

I know I left a lot of good Pac songs off the list, but feel free to add your faves to the list.

Empowering Friday

2009-10-09T06:52:00.005-04:00

Today, after reading about President Obama winning the Nobel Peace Prize, I decided that I would dedicate today's post to him. Well not necessarily directly at him, but musically, I would dedicate it to him via musical tracks that taught us to build ourselves up, and not tear each other down. This type of thinking brings more positive thought and hope to the world, which is the focal point of President Obama's foreign policy.

I wanna take it back old school and introduce this post off with prolly the most "infamous" song sang: "We Are the World".

I remember as a young kid, watching this video and seeing all the great superstars of the day from Luther Vandross, to Diana Ross, Daryl Hall (from Hall and Oates), and Lionel Richie. It was written by the late Michael Jackson (R.I.P.) and this song was dedicated to all of the starving children of South Africa. Even in today's times, this song could still apply to some country that is suffering from malnourishment.

"You Will Know" by Black Men United, or BMU for short, was the men's empowerment song. We needed this song as death to the Black Man was growing rampant, and the issue needed to be addressed. Who better to do it than a collaboration of greats being lead by the great Quincy Jones? If anyone can put together a song to catch the eye of the nation, it would be someone who's worked with such greats as Luther Vandross, Mariah Carey, Babyface, Tamia etc.

Now the women's version HAS to be "I'm Every Woman". Chaka Khan let women know that they were to be respected because "it's all in her". I think that women still silently bump this song for some uplifting words....fellas we better watch out. They ain't playin!

All my old school hip hop heads will remember my next one. Self-Destruction had to be one of the most remembered joints from the 80s dealing with violence and the downfall of the African American race.

KRS-1 and others decided that it was time to speak up about this after a young kid was killed at a concert due to senseless violence. "Self Destruction...we headed for self-destruction". They were right...people shoulda listened back then.

"We're All in the Same Gang" addressed the same issue, except centralized it due to gang violence. Big names like Dr. Dre, Michel'le, Hammer, Above the Law and others wanted to get the folks together on the West part of hte country and form the West Coast All-Stars to try to reach out to those participating in gang activity to try to get them to come together instead of takin each other out. Didn't necessarily work too well in their favor, but the song was still bangin! LOL

The last one is dedicated to our newly honored President: Mariah Carey's "Hero". Even if you listen to the words in the song, they describe exactly what he's goin through tryin to bring this country out of a recession while re-establish the United States' position in the world.
"It's a long road
When you face the world alone
No one reaches out a hand
For you to hold
You can find love
If you search within yourself
And the emptiness you felt
Will disappear

And then a hero comes along
With the strength to carry on
And you cast your fears aside
And you know you can survive
So when you feel like hope is gone
Look inside you and be strong
And you'll finally see the truth
That a hero lies in you"

Once again, congrats again to President Obama! You've travelled a long dark road alone, and now the fruits of your labor are starting to be noticed!

Trendy Songs You Hate to Love

2009-10-05T06:50:00.008-04:00

OK...it's almost 7 a.m. on Monday morning, and I really feel like I want to discuss this in some depth. Being one who will always ride that music from the 90s and even EARLY 2000s could run circles around this crap that we listen to these days, prompted me to post about songs that you give side eyes to in the public eye, but yet and still find yourself tappin your foot to in your car or at the crib. Maybe it's the beat, or maybe it's the silliness of the lyrics...iono. But either way, before you realize it, that song has made its way into your rotation on the sneak tip, and you don't know how.

Let's start off with the latest trendsetter: the infamous "LOL/:-)" by Trey Songz.

I'm not sure how Trey got this one off the ground, but coupled with the popularity of Twitter, now it became a household staple. I mean...seriously? WTH? "Shawty sent a twit pic, sayin come and get this. LOL :) LOL :)" I think Trey had to be smokin some serious sticky to come up with this one. The teeny boppers went in for it the moment that it came out. Me on the other hand...not so much. Only after hearing it EVERYWHERE in DC did I become one of the zombie heads of this song. I still feel like I lose more and more brain cells everytime I listen to this song though. LOL

Next on the list: "Stanky Leg" by the GS Boyz

Now I must admit, this was a catchy dance, and normally those dances that look the silliest are the ones that are the most popular. Not really sure why, maybe our people like lookin stupid....but if that's the case, then we may as well put on blackface and sooper white lips and dance around for Massa. The strange thing about this is that this isn't a hard dance to learn. Put your leg out (doesn't matter which one), and just shake it like you're having a seizure, and that's it. WTF? What ever happened to those dances that required that you have some sort of rhythm? I guess we've fallen into the realm of the Rhythmless Nation (remember that from In Living Color? lol)

Now let's move on to the next annoying ass catchy song: "You're a Jerk" by the New Boyz:

Who gets a kick off someone callin them a jerk? I know I don't...but then again, I guess I grew up in a time where we had some sense. But the song itself is kinda hot tho. Funny thing is this, when I was working with some teens from my church, I found myself doin the jerk with them. They were kinda shocked cause they ain't think that Mr. D had it in em. Had to show em how "old school" do it. LOL. Either way, the lyrics to this song are the worst dot com, but it's the beat that catches you and reels you in for the score.

Last but definitely not least, we got the trendiest song of em all; the one that was so popular that spinoffs popped up left and right, and it still outlasted ALL of the spinoffs: "Crank That Superman" by Soulja Boy Tell Em.
Soulja Boy - Crank That

This song became like the unofficial anthem of the hip hop nation. The dance became a must play at all parties, clubs, bar mitzvahs and the like. If you didn't know how to "Crank That", then you were considered a lame, and nobody wanted to hang with you. I dunno how Soulja Boy did it, but because of this song, we were learned to Crank that Spiderman (which by the way I saw used in a stepshow by my chapter brothers, and it was hot the way they used it), the Lion King, the Lawn Mower, the Old Man, and countless others with no point to them. lol. For that alone, I think that Soulja Boy earned the "Pointless song of the Decade" award from me.

Upon first hearing, these songs irritated the shit outta me, but once you hear them over and over again, you can't help but be mindlessly tappin your foot and hummin the beat to yourself while going about your day. Not to mention, it doesn't help that at every turn, I have to deal with some teenage crony blastin it on their iPod, or wailing it out while walkin down the street. I wish that it wasn't like this, but unfortunately, music will get worse before it gets better.

Who Does It Better? (pt 1)

2009-10-03T11:43:00.008-04:00

This is goin to be a two part series on who did it better in the 90s, cause we all know that music today ain't what it used to be back then. Today's post is gonna be about the girl groups that showed up and showed out during the times when music really inspired our hearts and heads during our growin up days.

Starting out the gate is TLC. I know we all remember their inaugural CD "Ooooh...on the TLC Tip!" with hits such as "Ain't Too Proud to Beg",

and then they came back hard with "What About Your Friends". Then they showed that they could slow down the joint and get romantic with "Baby, Baby, Baby," But on the real, I think they will always be known for their second CD "CrazySexyCool". They matured between their first CD and this one, proving that they could go from child-like innocence to mature and sexy. Their first hit from this CD "Creep" is still a banger (and in all honesty, the entire CD is)...and I'm sure everyone remembers the dance from the video (I know I do..lol). But the two songs that go the hardest on that CD were "Red Light Special" and "Sumthin' Wicked This Way Comes". The reason I say this is because while they show that sexy side of their trio, but they keep it real with the issues plaguing society. It's a shame that they had to lose a member of their family to a car accident. (RIP LeftEye).

Next we'll go to SWV. This group is always, and will always been known for the song that probably saw many a sexual playlist - "Weak". I think probably every household in America had at least ONE tape that had that song on there...lol. They showed they could give you upbeat tempo with "I'm So Into You" that would have you tappin ya foot, but then slow it down real nasty like with "Downtown". I'm sure every dude within pubetic ages was tryin to find out if that was the way to love. LMAO! I really love how they took their own song, and remade it into a faster song, and both of em are still bangin. We know how remixes tend to do. (another post for another day). Next up was "New Beginning". Now don't shoot me (and this is my joint!), but this CD wasn't as great as I expected it to be. I mean they had some bangers such as "Fine Time", "Use Your Heart", and "When This Feeling", but all in all, it was just eh. But they redeemed themselves with their final LP "Release Some Tension". They decided to bring it all out workin with such greats as Diddy and Missy. I think that they brought it all to the table to end their illustrious career with, such as "Can We"

I can't forget about Xscape now. Even though they didn't have the popularity of the two aforementioned groups, but they put out quality CDs. There was never a CD that was bad. First started with "Hummin' Comin' at 'Cha", this CD introduced the group with the hit "Just Kickin It".

Inspired folks to kick off ya shoes and relax ya feet...party on down to the Xscape beat. I know I did. "Tonight" was slow it down and lets get into the groove song. Another great one for a lets get the mood started list. Their second one "Off the Hook" wasn't as great...but still a good one. Then comes the mature "Traces of My Lipstick". This was a CD full of ballads as opposed to the upbeat style that we were used to. In my opinion, this was a good transition for them, but then again, with the writings of the great Kandi Burress, I can see why it worked for them. My condolences for the loss she has suffered in the past couple of days.

And to round off the girl groups....of course I can't forget my Bad Girls: Total. I know my music heads woulda cut my head off for forgettin them. Nobody can ever forget when they came out with their first self-titled CD featuring the hit "No One Else". But my joint always was, and always is "Kissing You"

Their next album "Kima, Keisha, & Pam" let the whole world know that they were the Bad Girls of the Bad Boy Family, and they were not to be effed with. They came hard from beginning to end, and real talk, that CD still could get rotation in the whip. I recommend this to everyone to peep out, just for a reminder of what they brought to the table.

There are plenty more girl groups that I didn't mention in this blog, and feel free to mention them when commenting...but these are just a few that I really got into when I was growin up. Lemme know whatcha think!

The Greatest Sex......songs

2009-09-30T20:59:00.003-04:00

As I'm sitting here, listening to music, a certain wave is definitely coming over me. So tonight, I'm gonna post about some music that could definitely take you "there" with that special someone.

First off, I'm gonna start off with one of my current personal favorites: Mr. Raheem DeVaughn. Two songs that I would recommend adding to ANY sex CD that you create would be "You" and "Love Drug".

I mean look at this small excerpt from "Love Drug": You appear as though you're from Columbia. You's keep it tight for me like Ziplocs. And I just got high when we lip lock... and you just got high when we lip lock. So you search for me with a flashlight, in the daylight... cause I'm your get right. So no one serves you up girl like I can. I'm your Mr. Midnight pusher man. I mean doggone...after reading that, I feel like I need a cigarette...a cigar, some weed...SOMETHIN. He definitely will give you everything you want, and more of what you need, in order to set the mood where you tryin to get it.

Next, we'll move on to Maxwell: Sumthin, Sumthin (Mellosmoothe Remix). Now it's bad enough that this particular song was created for one of the most LOVE FILLED movies in all of life: Love Jones, but I think he knew that draws would be droppin while gettin your swerve on to this song. This is one of those songs that will never fall off the "Sex Play" list on the iPod

Another blast from the past would be Kut Klose's "I Like". This is a joint from the early 90's that started exuding sex from the first beat drop. I love it because even though it's almost 20 years old, it still can get the mood right and tight before you realize what's happenin.

Another personal favorite would be Beyonce's "Speechless". From the moment she starts singing this song, it's dripping with all kinds of sexual tension for even the most hardened of hearts. Any man/woman who makes an attempt at seduction while playing this song, will definitely enjoy the end results. What makes this song even more great is the fact that she gives you a nice climatic ending to the song, and when she's finished, she ends it on the high that only Bey will give you - the afterglow. Definitely an A+ for Mrs. Carter on this effort!

And to round out this post, I must end with Ne-Yo. This man can write music for the best of em, but he will give you a nice sex song himself, that will have you making sure that you don't need to wipe yourself down. A perfect example of that are the following lyrics from "Say It": Your body whispering from under the sheets I hear it moaning, begging loud and clearly I'm rather fluent in the language it speaks But it's your mouth I want to tell it to me. OK...I'm not sure who told Ne-Yo that these lyrics are permissable for anyone under the age of 23 to hear these, but there's gotta be a law against this. Glad I'm well above that age. LOL.

All in all, there are many songs out there that will help you set the mood just right. Depending on your age, and your song preference, you could put together the right collaboration that could keep you locked indoors for quite some time during the night. I just hope that you buckle up....something tells me with those types of songs, it'll be a wild ride.